Should I just start from PU 101 if i'm working on attracting a girl that fell in love with me when I was into the PUA months and months ago, then we started dating, and I stopped running patterns and being playful, my mind went a little dull, i got lazy and uninteresting. I put us on a brake for now. Should I just act like she's a new girl?

You can post 500 threads about this but the underlying problem is your obsession with this one girl.

Break
Refresh
Return
Attract

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you're right, and even if she ends up with some guy in that time. Oh well, i'll be of higher value by that time. it'll only be time until i'm either off in a new place, or in a new place with her. We both said we'd probably end back up with each other. Whether it was in months or it was in years. This period of time just sucks. my dog died and i broke with my girl in the same day. This girl was my best friend, favorite girl. Wa Wa cry cry you guys don't care sorry. But I will continue improving myself. I guess NLP, PUA, and Taijiquan will be my focus from now on. all thought i'm not ready to do any PU yet, i'll just refresh myself.

Dude chill out. Seriously. You wrote like 5 new threads on the same topic and a lot of people including myself gave you great advice. Stop looking for the answers you want to hear. You're in a state of obsession right now and you aren't thinking clearly.

Honestly, it sounds like your life is revolving around this one girl and that is very pathetic. There is a difference between love and obsession.

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