so, I say hi to this hb 9 tonight, and then walk away. Later she comes up to me and chats away, we hit it off good, and then out of nowhere, this dude, total afc, fairly ugly too, walks up and physically removes her from the conversation, she starts waving and says,"Bye graffiti, I hope to see you again!" and then she's gone and I'm in total shock.

What the hell should I have done here, this was such a ridiculous move that all I could think of doing was deck the guy? any opinions to prevent this from happening in the future?

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the key is to building enuff rapport that she doesnt want to leave,
do you know for definate that this dude wasnt her boyfriend?
if you dragged him into the conversation you possible could have DHV'd him i.e. out Alpha'd him but to be honest id need to know more about the situation to be able to comment further..

I don't really remember, I have no idea whether he was her bf or not, while he was pulling her away her hand was reaching out to me, I have no idea if it meant anything though. We were just talking to talk, i mean the conversation was about the origin of our names. I didn't do any kino, a major problem I have, and I know I should have said something to this guy, but I was in to much of shock, kind of laughing in disbelief, and a little to drunk to think of doing anything right then and there.

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you got punked.

i'd of reached for her hand. then said. 'dude we were talking.'

i'd be ready to fight for some dumb shit like that.

but he probly got signs that she wasn't interested in you. or that he was really her friend and just pulled her away cause guys are like that.


but what lead up from the time he came to you and her. till he physically removed her.


sounds like he did the steps. approched, broke the set, isolated her. BFD yo ass.

sorry man. i'd come off like WTF to the guy. but i'd check with the girl first to make sure he wasn't a friend or something. i need more info.

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DAmn MAte That Was Preety bad.
A little tip is that when u see a Guy moving towards her, move in order he needs to pass "through" U to get to her, and there u can say anything u want to him and also kinda prevent to be cockblocked ass U were.

THough That Situtation was preety bad, and i have lived that severak times and is very shocking, ballboiling situtation

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I agree, try something a little like this, I like to make it more his fault.
"Hey, mate, my lady friend and I were talking, excuse me. Don't be so rude." You should have taken her hand. Look at her, roll your eyes and point to somewhere we you can sit. Don't be afraid. He was actually being rude, this isn't any Alpha/Cockblock, he was just being rude., he interrupted a conversation half way without any contribution or discussion. So, if you're less rude, she'll have more report for you and you'll build comfort.

Cheers,
Schnitzel Smooth.

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