Sorry guys, this message got a bit long.


So I met this girl on the street & got her number. She was un-fucking-believable. Long blonde hair, amazing body, face to die for. I think I'm getting a bit of one-itis but I dont care. She is so fucking sexy! If I got with her I'd keep her.
There's a probelem though. She's quite a bit younger than me. I'm 26 & she's 17. Ok, I know, get it all out your systems. To be honest I dont give a shit what anyone thinks. We're friends on myspace and her body looks properly developed, she is just generally fucking hot. With the whole age thing, what I would like to happen is we meet up, I realise she's just a silly little girl & I go off her there and then and I can just get on with things. But until then Im trying to at least hook up with her.
We been texting, obviously because she's a bit younger I gotta play things right. I cant just jump in there & start texting filth or anything too suggestive cos I dont wanna scare her off. She doesnt even know how old I am. If she's asks Im gonna tell her im 22. I could porbably get away with saying younger cos I look young, but what ever. Anyway, we text each other, things are going well but I cant seem to get her to agree to coming out. Its only early days so Im just gonna keep playing it slow & gaining her trust until she agrees but fuck, its doing my brain in!
Say we been texting througout the day I'll ask her if she wants to go out for a drink say tomorrow night for example & she'll say she's doing something. Then I'll say "ok, so when you free so I can take you out?". And she wont text back to that. I've only asked her out once or twice so Im not asking her again for a while. Im just gonna keep textin her until she is comfortable with me. Its only been a week since I got her number & I havent been mad texting but if I send her a text & she takes a while to get back to me I drive myself mad wondering why she hasnt text back.
Aaagggghhh!!! She is so fucking hot!!! I want her now!
What can I say to take it a step further? I cant stand all this beating around the bush bullshit, chatting pointless crap in texts!!
I just wanna say naughty shit to her like Im used to but she's different (and younger), she aint gonna buy that stuff. She obviously gets hit on all the time. Her pictures on myspace are full of comments from wastemen saying bollocks like "looking hot honey", or "if I was there I'd so this & that to you". Blah Blah blah. I've havent given her any comments on how good she looks apart from the fact she's looking for a job & I said "a good looking girl like you should find a job easy if you get interviewed by a guy, just flutter your eye lids at him" or some shit like that. I've dropped negs at her, she seems to like me (in text form), she's given a couple of IOI's like asking me what Im up to and what I been doing.
ANYWAY. I just need to get her to agree to come out for a drink. I told her I was DJing tonight and she can come. She seems quite interested but Im not going to ask her again cos I want to spend time with her, and not worry about if she's bored while Im on the decks.
Fuck!! Help me guys. I havent felt like this about a girl in a long time. The last time i was like this was when I met my girlfriend like 7 years ago. Since then any girl I've met I just wanted to screw. If this one is as cool as I'm hoping she is I could see myself wanting to get with her properly.
I just want to get her to meet up with me. Gimme some pointers please!

First of all, stop being so d@mn BORING!!!

She is just using you to talk to when she is bored. (THE TEXTS).


You need to find out what she is interested in doing and work off of that.
Just ask her "in text" what she likes to do for fun...

Also, you need to talk to this girl face-to-face... I once got a suggestion
from a "girl-friend" (my normal PIVOT) that the best first date is the
cliche one.. take her to a movie.. get there early so that you two can
talk without all the "nerves" going nuts... like they do at a "dinner date."

Don't be boring, be funny, confident, take charge and be a man....

Thanks for the advice man. Trust me Im not boring. As I said, she is looking for a job so I been trying to find out what she wants to do in life. I have been texting decent shit, getting good responses. Its not just mindless chit chat. But as I mentioned Im having difficulty getting her to agree to the date so Im texting shit to make her laugh etc. Although I said I feel Im beating round the bush a bit its not just crap we talk about, there is substance and relevance to it.
But yeah the difficulty Im having is getting her to agree to come out and meet me. All I need is that first date. What sort of approach can I use to get her to want to come out? You said be a man, well Im used to being upfront with women and telling them straight what I want, i.e. a date etc. But I've tried that approach on this one and she's not biting just yet.
Thats all I need help with, getting her to agree to a date. Anyone got anything thats worked for a similar situation at all?

Cheers

First off paragraphs are your friend.

Secondly your dealing with a 17 year old girl. And one that gets a ton of attention. My bet is that she is loving the attention you are giving her and has no intentions of meeting you in person. I also bet with the types of comments she has gotten on her myspace page she is also very cautious to whom she meets from myspace as well.

Its up to you if you want to continue to text her. But if I was in your position I would move on.

I'm not giving her loads of attention, just a few texts hear and there, and its not the usual "you're gorgeous" bull crap. And Im not meeting her through myspace, I got her number on the street, we then became friends on myspace. I havent sent her any messages or comments on myspace. We requested to be friends, I negged her for having too many photos (in a text) and that was it with the myspace thing. So no, I dont wanna move on just yet.

I told her I could speak to a few people about getting her a job. I was a waiter at TGI's and I told her guys empty their wallets for a pretty face and she would make a killing as a waitress. She's asked me if I could try get her a job in one of the restaurants seeing as Im still friendly with the managers there. I'm thinking maybe I could say we should hook up so I can get a copy of her CV and while we're out we can get a drink. I dunno, I just want to say something thats going to make her feel comfortable about hooking up, and not make her think its a date and there'll be that date pressure. I'd sooner get her out and let her decide if she wants to go out on another proper date.

Thats IS a lot of attention.
Taking a girl in the movies is a bad idea! Seriously! THINK! Take her to a grocery store and you'll do better! I'm sure that one hundred other guys wants to take a hot babe in to the movies! God...

I think you are too new to 'the game' to actually start succesfully gaming anyone you know right now. You will most likely end up screwing up your "only-one" and cry about it with the wrong use of PUA stuff.

PUA is like a gun, but only if you know how to use it. First you must learn with a clout how to use it properly, and then when you are ready, use it on those who you otherwise wouldn't want to risk losing.
She clearly takes the advantage of you.

I'm pretty sure that she has congruence tested you and you failed them so she knows she can walk all over you.

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You know what, all I wanted was a good angle to get her to come out. You're all reading far too deep into the precise words I am writing in my posts. Don't worry about it. I'll handle it myself.

It seemed you meet thru MySpace. But still the fact remains that this girl gets a ton of attention from guys and knows it. And your just the latest guy giving her attention and nothing else. You also say you don't give her a lot of attention, but you are doing the "you're gorgeous" crap. Yes your not saying it totally directly but saying things that she can use her looks to empty wallets at TGI's is pretty much saying it anyway.
As Stetson said above me, she is using you because she knows you want to hook up with her (and I bet to f-close with her as well). Serious dude I think your thinking with your other head on this.

Good luck.

The point is to read far deep your precise words to give the precise help on the case. But what I figured now is that you aren't taking our advice, even when you yourself asked for it. Don't complain about the advice you get. You are still new to the game.

If you really want to know what to do step by step:

*Ice your relationship with her for a week or two. Now to get time to pass faster; practice your game to other people around you and you need to read a book called 'Mystery Method - The Venusian Arts Handbook'!

*Game her succesfully via phone, SMS or anywhere for a maximum of one week, but remember to call her AT LEAST ONCE.

*Set up a day 2 via SMS (I have noticed that this works better since the person on the otherside has more time to think, and won't just answer quickly by her logical mind).

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There is NO secret ingredient. Theres just you.

We're going out for a drink one night this week.

Apparently she's got a boy friend... and she still agreed to hook up.

So erm yeah, thanks for all your help