Hi guys im new here...

I'll try keep it simple.

Met a girl through a friends girlfriend(sisters).

First time I meet her us 3 go out drinking etc, SHE initiates everything, basically jumps on me, that night end up kissing a lot, obvious she likes me.

We meet for the 2nd time 2 days later at friends birthday party, same thing happens, she says she likes me, and even says she wants to sleep with me, but not that night as neither of us had a free house.

Now she is only in the country on holiday until next month and doesnt have a phone, but she says that she will get my number of the other girl and she will call me.

Anyway that was about a week ago...and I haven't heard from her at all...and she hasnt come out at all with my friend and his GF (her sister) but has been going out with their other sister..and hasnt been home when I've been at her house so i haven't had any chance to see her to talk to her

She's a bit older then me and its clear shes only looking for some fun, which is fine by me, but why has she not been in contact after the way she was when I met her, very VERY full on, not being able to keep her hands off me?

Do I try to get in contact with her through my friend..ask her what shes been up to etc and how come she hasn't called? Or just ask when does she wanna meet up and meet her and just see what happens? Or just leave her alone?

Sorry to bump but really need some advice asap!

she could have been looking for it then, but like you said she was just looking for fun. window might be closed because she could very well be getting that fun from someone else now. Id say dont worry about and if you meet her again be damn sure you have a place to take her or escalate enough to where she would be willing to do it in a car or on a blanket outside or some shit. doesnt matter, just go caveman, she already did it to you so she is obviously attracted. take some control next time you see her, but for right now dont go hunting her down.

you [/i]know girls are attracted to you so go out and meet some new ones

>_^

Hmm, don't you just love girls ? That was an obvious lie since she didn't contact you anymore.

What I would have said on that would be:

"I don't give my number so easily anymore... How can I be sure that you are not a stalker?! Give me your number and I'll call you when I'm free."

Right now your best bet is to meet her somehow, I don't know how but thats your only chance.

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A common misconception us men have when dealing with a sexually aggressive woman is that we think we are somehow special. She probably does the same thing to every guy she finds attractive. Harsh reality that I've dealt with before.

If you get another window of opportunity and decide to take it, make sure you have things "covered"

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Thanks for the replies guys..

I've just been reading The Venusian Arts Handbook today...and it talks about a thing called Buyers Remorse...and its exactly the same scenario that happened to me!

Oh well at least I've learnt now!

Not gonna do anything about this girl..if i see her again then we will see what happens, if i dont, no worries, loads of other girls out there

It doesn't sound like it'll be buyers remorse. Unless you made it uncomfortable for her by turning super-beta when she initiated things.

If a girl has to talk me into bed (and I'm not resisting for a specific reason) then it's slightly worrisome. I generally want there to be some resistence, even if it is token, because I know it'll be enough to stop many guys. I want to know that guys have been stopped and not invited, capice?

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I precisely agree with the guy above. You're killing the attraction by being her little sex-toy bitch.

Tease her, neg her... lastnight I was at HB8's house, and she's coming onto me, and I'm saying she's out of luck tonight because I didn't bring condoms. Women love to be teased. Remember. Play the Alpha Male. The king of the tribe who has all the girls he wants, and makes the rules. You're him. Be him and they want to fuck you.

So if it were me... call her up, or get into contact with her somewhere, say something like "Hey, I was just wondering if you'd like to join me and booty call #4 for a threesome. Call me back, it's about to start." And then take her out again, but neg, and tease, and up the kino.

Go, man.