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PostPosted: Sat Jul 19, 2008 4:54 pm 
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So i just went out for a fun night with this 28 yr old HB8. She also happens to be my older sister's good friend, although my sister is working abroad in London at the moment. Last night we went out for a couple of drinks and then dinner.

Throughout the night I could tell there was a sense of attraction and sexual tension. She let me kino her a good amount although she didnt return as much. However, I believe that her age and the fact that she is my sister's friend is making her weary and cautious to "do" anything with me. She originally thought I was older and seemed to be shocked when I told her I was 21 and still had a year left in college. I know she would def be down for some fun bc she has told me numerous times that shes not looking for a relationship, blah blah...but how can I get over barrier??

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I'm 15 and I've gamed a 17 year old before.
Now, that's 5 years less than your 8 year barrier but I just kept establishing frames that I was more mature than she was and that she was still like a little 5 year old girl.

Sometimes I seem to AMOG my teachers in school or fathers of friends by accident.
So yeah, the term "age doesn't matter" is fine as long as you're flipping those instinctive attraction switches on.


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Here's an excerpt from my FR "Bringing the Culture Shock" fr-bringing-the-culture-shock-vt24494.html :
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I tell them I'm 18. They freak out and won't even tell me how old they are. All I know is that they're between the ages of 20-something and 30. I treat it like it's no big deal, treating the girls like they're weird for making any sort of issue about it. They're throwing shit-tests at me like crazy now, telling me that I'm just a baby and that I look like I'm in high school or some shit like that. I brush off the tests like dust and reframe the entire situation. "Alright, listen. I know you two wish you were young again, so I've got a little present for you. Just for tonight, you two are going to be 18 all over again!" (said with kino of course) At first they responded like old people, "Ohhhh my god it's been so long since I was that age," but with a persistent positive frame I eventually got them excited about the idea. Hey, I already had them hooked before we even got on the dance floor. This was easy peasy at this phase of the game. I even did some takeaways and opened other sets to preserve my value. Attraction was building. Whenever they would try to frame my young age as a bad thing, I'd reframe by negging them for being old, following it up with something like, "but how does it feel to be young again tonight? Woohooo!" This strengthened the frame that young = good.
I got that little trick from realizing that older women really do wish they were younger again since their eggs actually have an expiration date. In fact, most of the older women I game don't even ask me how old I am. They know I am younger and they want to keep the numbers on the down-low while enjoying the attention they used to get all the time years ago but no longer get in bundles nowadays. Even if they are just a little older, their subconscious knows that they will end up in that position sometime in the future, so they still enjoy getting gamed by younger men.


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You pretty much do the same thing as you would in picking up any girl. The only real difference is that you have to show that you can provide excitement in some fashion. As Chief said a lot of older women want to be young again.


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I'm trying to figure out how to get an older chick UNinterested. My ex of two years (who is fourteen years my senior) won't leave me alone! haha


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I'm trying to figure out how to get an older chick UNinterested. My ex of two years (who is fourteen years my senior) won't leave me alone! haha
Act gay or an all out AFC guy. :lol: Or better yet kidnap her and taker her to Death Valley and leave her there. ;p;


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I'm trying to figure out how to get an older chick UNinterested. My ex of two years (who is fourteen years my senior) won't leave me alone! haha
Act gay or an all out AFC guy. :lol: Or better yet kidnap her and taker her to Death Valley and leave her there. ;p;
lol, I could be the most pathetic dweeb on the planet and she'd still beg for me to take her back. This is a woman who men fall all over left and right. My only option is death valley... lol

Anyways, on a more serious note, you should be able to do some research into your local night life and find out where the "cougar" bars are. Yes, there are places where it's a bunch of 35-40 y/o women and 21-27 y/o guys looking to hook up. All you have to do is show up and let them all know who the big prize is!


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