Here's a big ol excerpt from a newsletter that Swinggcat sent out:
Quote:
How To Approach A Woman On The Dance Floor Without Having To Dance With Her
Just about every day I receive an email from a frustrated guy wanting to know how to meet and attract a woman on the dance floor without having to dance with her.
Here’s why…
The majority of these guys:
1). Are aware that most attractive women at bars and nightclubs spend the lion's share of their night on the dance floor.
2). Know that the dance floor is a terrible place to have a conversation with a woman.
To make matters worse, these guys may hate to dance.
A few years back, asking me how to work the dance floor would have been like a calculus student asking Forrest Gump to help him with his homework. I used to avoid the dance floor like housecats avoid water.
That’s because I’ve got the rhythm of a baboon on acid.
But recently I’ve discovered ways to meet and attract women on the dance floor without sporting any Rico Suave moves.
Even cooler…
One night after quaffing down a few too many drinks (actually enough to send a swerving alcoholic off the road), I had a spark of genius. Usually alcohol kills brain cells but this was an exception.
I came up with a technique for meeting women on the dance floor without having to dance.
Stand at the edge of the dance floor.
Spot a woman you fancy.
To the music, start bumping your butt against the butt against hers. (Though it might shock you, most women will start bumping butts with you.)
Then spin her around and pull her off the dance floor or towards an adjacent bar.
Congratulations.
You’ve proven you’re a cool guy by busting out two dance moves: the butt bump and the spin. Yet you’ve accomplished this without really dancing with her.
Plus you have pulled her off the dance floor where you can engage her in conversation and spark attraction.
This should take no more than 45 seconds.
Small Caveat: Quickly spark attraction or she’ll go back to the dance floor.
You might be thinking, “ Quickly spark attraction? That’s a piece a cake if you’re under 25, hover above 6'2", and have a super model mug. If you're lacking in any of these departments, you're shit out of luck.”
Years ago, I had these thoughts too. And without the right tools, there’s a lot of truth to them.
Quick reality check: I’m a very average looking guy. Many of the women I meet are over a decade younger than me. But I can effortlessly trigger attraction in them seconds after meeting them.
That’s because I’m equipped with the right tools. These tools give you the power to bypass her critical factor, trigger colossal amounts of attraction inside her, and tap into neurological structures in her brain that compel her to act on that arousal.