Okay guys I am totally a newborn, well maybe more like a 6 month old when it comes to the pua lifestyle. I'm still absorbing and learning everything, I got my first book about a month ago and have been reading and studying since then. I haven't put it into practice in person yet but I recently created a match.com account and have tried a few techniques on that website with no luck yet but I'm doing and trying things that I would never dreamed of just a month ago I'm proud of my small progress so far.

Warning total AFC story to follow; Now to explain my problem, the girl who caused me to starting thinking about ways to improve my game and led me to this board is on my myspace. She is a friend of a friend of friend I was browsing one day and so much of her personality came through the page to me that I was instantly smitten I stayed this way for about 6 months till one day I looked at her page and found out she was born on the same day I was about a week later I wrote her a little message saying I ran across her page and discovered she shared my birthday so I wanted to say hi, she wrote back and introduced herself and was very friendly, I really didn't hear from her much but we would comment once back and forth a few times a month wit little pictures that are popular on myspace like "have a great weekend " stuff like that but she does stuff like that with a lot of her friends often time the same picture.

One day I was out clubbing and saw her for the first time in person of course I was too scared to talk to her my friend and his girlfriend were with me and his girlfriend kept teasing me for being scared. A few beers later we were walking by her and my friends girlfriend pushed me hard into the girl I like so I was forced to make small talk and introduce myself. I was happy for that. We talked on myspace more after that... Still I was too petrified to try anything more. So a few months later I was with a girl I had been dating for a short while at a wedding reception when I spotted my crush. She saw me alone with a friend of mine and I made sure to evade her and she didn't see me again that night. After that she wrote me again saying she saw me at first but then didn't see me again lol another time I was working (I deliver beer) and she happen to walk into a walgreens I was delivering too cause she worked next store at a vet clinic we chatted for a minute and she said she was embarresed cause she had no makeup on and I should delete her.

Okay this pathetic AFC story has now dragged on for a year and a half. I go through times where I give up on her and then I will get a little picture comment from her and ill get reeled back in. The last one came a few days ago but for the first time I haven't bothered to respond. Did she even notice?

I have semi flirted with her over comments for example I was taking a salsa dancing class and she found out and asked me about it. I told her to join with me and I'd save her a spot ... No reply. Later on a few weeks passed and she mentioned to me she felt like dancing I replied to her let's go ill take you again no reply. When class was over I mentioned it to her and that I'd like to show her what I've learned she replied with a confusing ":)" when I write her and get no reply I get discouraged ...looking back at how many AFC mistakes I have made its crazy. Wow this got long its scary how much comes out when you just type away without stopping to think.

Anyways what should I do? I don't feel I know nearly enough about the pua game yet, that's why I'm trying match.com a lil to test myself and then maybe some in person. Have I entered the LJBF zone already? Should I make her my biggest test yet? I guess you can say these are my first steps for the newborn PUA after I have spent a little time learning ... Probably way too little..

wow man lol dont worry everyone is like that to begin with, im not a master or anything but ive approachd a few sets in person to no when to stop.. Or you could go direct.. it does what it says on the tin

Mail her again, ask her wot her fav food is, if she replys (A BIG if) tell her ur pick her up at 8 on (Enter day here) see what happens, she might take u up on it, or she might not reply.

If no reply, then move on an dont bother, cud be the LJBF's zone, or maybe ur S and R jus isnt there yet.

and if you really like her go bk in a year, apply everything you learn between now an then, and completly game her till she begs for u.

gd luck man

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