Ok! So I met this hb9 at my friends party, I kinda knew who that girl was before and she knew me and she was sober but I was kinda drunk! Ok, we start talking and hit it off well, I am teasing her and all that! Ok, then I am thinking about just leave with my friends but they had already left without me so I asked her if she wanted to give me a ride home! She said yes and drove me home, and I thanked her for the lift and we made plans for sunday(it was friday). Then comes sunday, I call her and she tells me she will pick me up, ok no problem. She arrives and we just drive around talking which goes well, I tease her and do kino and all. Then I tell her I have to go work in the morning and she drives me back. And I tell her that she owes me a walk in the park(made fun of her for being a bad driver). I don't kiss close her, because I know she expects it, so instead I lean in and stroke her cheek with my thumb, and say ''thanks for the drive, and good night.'' Then the day after she comes back(note that she always drives to my house), and we go and walk in the park, then I just sit down and start looking up in the sky(it was a pretty nice day) and I tell her to sit down and I run the cube on her and she is really excited about that(I know for sure that no one has ever done that to her). I know that after the cube I should have gone for the kiss close but I waited like an AFC until the end of the night do k-close. Ok, then comes the next day(This is kinda where it is fucking up, because I see her everyday). It is raining so I invite her to my place to watch dvd's with me, she want's to and we go and rent a movie and go to my place and even there I did not go into S-mode(One part, I wasn't in the mood because I had been working all day and I was really tired). But we kissed more and she went home eventually. Afterwards I was like ''why the fuck didn't I at least do something(this has never happened to me before, never doing something with a girl when I invite her over). The next day I don't call or text her at all, and then she texts me and asks me what's up and blablabla, and then I go to sleep after I have answered her. And she texts me 3 times and tries to call 2 times(while I am asleep). We go together to a party that friday(kinda fucked up, I know) and I am a pretty popular guy so I knew everyone at the party(all people from my school) and everyone where coming up to me boys and girls, the girls where kissing me on the cheeks or wrapping their arms around me but I always stayed with the girl since she was with me. (we never do anything more than kiss that evening, FUCK I AM AN IDIOT!!!!!). Then yesterday She is at her mother's birthday party and calls me, pretty drunk during the night and asks me if I want to come and meet her, I say yes and drive to pick her up, we go and get pizza to eat and she even pays. Then we drive more around and she is like really drunk so I just say ''Hey, I have an idea, let's go to my place and cuddle in my bed'', she is almost falling asleep and says ''Yes, please let's'', and off we go. Then at my place we go inside my room and she jumps in my bed and starts to sleep, I jump in bed and we cuddle(she was to drunk for me to do something). Then the morning after we wake up and she is kinda cold, like ''I could feel it cold''. And we sleep alittle more and I say ''come on and drag her to me into a cuddle, and put my arm around her and tell her to stroke it, she does. Then she is always looking at what time it is, so I asked if she wanted to go home, she said yes! Then I pull her in for a kiss and she lays down and we kiss and then I just say, ''alright I'm bringing you home''. And I do and when we are at her house she say's ''thanks for the ride'' and is about to go out, but I pull her in for a kiss and say ''you are welcome'' and then say bye! But the funny thing is it was kinda like she was reluctant to kiss me, like she felt forced or something. Anyways, I know this is a long story but I have to ask what to do! Did I fuck this up? Is there any way that I can repair the damage? I thought that I should wait a few days to call her but see if she calls or texts me! Help a brother out! I feel like a naked, wingless bird!!

Dude you from what you just said you definetively had a chance with her. Here is what i think went wrong.
1) the biggest mistake was that you were hanging out with her way to much. You need to make yourself seem like you are very busy well like person. You probable should of told her one of the nights you couldnt hang out.
2) Girls are able to pick up on guys that are holding back. You just have to go for it. You hung out with her for a few days and you should of just made your move and realize the worst thing that would happen is that she would say NO
3) You can save yourself here you got to be bold and do something spontaneous she wouldnt expect and sweep her off her feet.

Good luck,
Stunner

now when you say she felt cold. you mean like temputure, as in she could ues a few blankets?? or as in she didn't care about you and just was turned off? and what is "i could feel 'it' cold" what is the IT there?

now do you mean stroke your dick or your arm? I'm guessing dick but i'm just making sure. there is a big difference. cause your writting toward the end is not that clear. you even have one (") and no closing. like you forgot it was there.

i'm just trying to get a better idea.

if you told her to touch your wanky. maybe you turned her off. you shouldn't have to say stuff like that. you should just either

1. let her do it on her own cause she wants to grab cause she's a slut.

2. make out and just move her hand there. there is no need for words. untill you are pluging the girl. i find that if its the heat of the moment girls will not make the first move. this way they are trying to say they are not the sluts that they are. lol jk. just think of it the same way a girl will place your hand on her boob to give you the ok.

and if you do mean that her pootang was cold. then thats a sure sign she was not in the mood for sex. next time you look at the poonani up close you'll see the sign. (please warm up before riding)


if its all that then thats why she got turned off. you were not smooth at the end. she was probly either looking for romance, or excitment. you failed in both. if you were trying to f-close her.

if i got it wrong let me know.

Just call her and don't bring it up. unless you say sorry, even tho you're not. then talk about how you kept thinking of that time in the park. and refer back to the cube. bring back her good feeling. then run game from there.

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Thanks for the answer man, appreciated! Although none of what you said is where I was coming from! ASUstunner already helped me out and I am still seeing this girl, and now I know she is really into me and the best part is, she's got game too, so I get some challenge!