A couple of my so called friends tell everyone I am Virgin how should I respond to this when girls ask me this also ?

''yeah i am holding out for the right one'' also if youre a virgin u could also add that if u slept with a women you wouldnt be compairing her with anyone

First of all i would tell you "friends" to drink some bleach, but other than that i think that all you can doabout the situation is accept it; if a girl knows your a virgin then she knows your clean and that is a possitive.

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I'm in a similar boat dude, though half of my friends are virgins aswell so it evens the playing field a little. Personally I try to make it known to girls that I'm a virgin as soon as possible and basically not make a big deal out of it, because it isn't a big deal. I just tell them the truth, I've had the opportunity a few times but those times were with people that I didn't in all honestly want to do it with, plus a I'm pretty sure 1 or 2 may have had STDs (later found out that 1 actualy did, dodged a bullet there).
So yeah just be honest and don't make it into a big deal, if a girl then says "why did your friends tell me that?" just say "they are insecure and feel the need to try and put me down over something which doesn't bother me" something like that anyway.

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nothing wrong with being a virgin, i used to say i was when i wasn't

this will put some light on it. i am a virgin. a work mate found out at a party i was. he then told me how allot of women (allot of his female friends anyway) would love it. or maybe thats just because u can say i took soandsos virginity. use itfor ur advantage if u can.

my mates tried to pay me out but im comfortable as with it.

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How do they know you are a virgin? How do you know they aren't virgins themselves?

Anyway. I actually like to tell a chick in a C&F manner that I'ma virgin and am saving myself for that special woman.. or for priesthood. It's obvious that I'm JK but it becomes a funny theme during the set. I might ask if theres any sin on their soul and have them confess some shit to me. then I'll give them a "penence"..

"Say two hail mary's and dream of me tonight."

You might be able to play it off and make it work for you.

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- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB

Yeah Man dont deny it
if your cool with it then no one will give you shit.
and if they well just look at them funny and ignore them

If I were you I'd respond to that by going out and getting laid

lol

Sometimes its actually better to be a virgin. I wish I haven't lost it so early in life. Enjoy being one while you still can.

I am not a Virgin but have only had a couple of one night stands since I was 20 (now 23) she doesn't know and she tends to tell my target whenever Its time to start kiss closing we roll with the same people and she has a boyfriend one of my best mates.

Great answer, especially the part about your friends being insecure.

Just like Musterion said, if you don't make a big deal about it and act like it doesn't bother you, then girls (or anyone for that matter) won't care either. The fact that you don't let small things like this bother you actually can be a great DHV.

If they're really giving you hell about it, say something like.

"It's called STANDARDS. And when you impregnate a fat, ugly, psycho... you'll wish yuo had some. I need something better than a hole and a pulse"

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- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB

honestly...i find it harder to deal with this question with guys I play sports with because on my sports teams im usually one of the few virg's and therefore get razzed alot about it, and it sucks. With girls, this has never come up. But 2 years ago when I was 17 I lied to my teamates and said id been w/ 2 girls. And soon, I got caught in my own web of lies because when we had team parties it was clear I wasnt good with girls, so I fessed up. Anyways, since then ive been honest whenever the question has been posed. Its really embarrassing on sports teams to admit it, and especially now that im 19, i better get laid in the next month before my season starts otherwise Im gonna have to go through all the razzing again. Honestly, in a way ive been holding out for the right girl b/c I have had oppurtunities, but just with girls who were really borderline. Really, I just want to get it over with just so I wont have to face all the razzing next year, and also to give me some peace of mind. Anybody who's been in my situation knows what im talking about. Its frustrating as fuck, however I try to not let it get to me because a true PUA needs to have his mind straight in the field. Thinking about End game to early, fucks you up.

In regards to this coming up with girls (and maybe even with guys) go with the same idea that underlies the STI thing, standards:

"Yeah, I'm still a virgin... I've had opportunities to have sex, but I really wasn't interested in any of them. I have high standards and I'm not going to lower them for the sake of sex."

***Remember, just like anything else, you MUST present this with confidence and sincerity. If any of your mannerisms betray you, it makes it look like a pathetic excuse.***

If properly delivered, this type of line instantly raises your value, your not lying *(if you don't have high standards, change that now) and for girls, this is almost like a challenge ("I bet your not good enough to sleep with me").

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"A wise man knows only that he knows nothing."