ok so girls seem to get the vibe i know game and im a player.. how do you stop it or tone it down so its not so vivid and telegrahing interest!!!!

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i'll just throw my thoughts out there:

one of the reason they see it is, well, is just THAT obvious. it's ok to be wield behind the doors, but if you want to tune it down, be more lay back and flirt with less girls in the same community.

Yeah I agree. Also, just generally talking first and as the conversation rolls just convey a bit of personality here and there, a little subtle kino. Dont do the neg stuff or any of the other classic PUA moves. Personally, Im finding that becoming a good conversationalist seems to work. When she becomes excited...say lets play a game and then its game on. Also, a sneaky way is to ask her if she can see any players in the club? What does she think of players? and so on. 9 times out of 10 holding a conversation into deep attraction and then kiss her will work.

Hope this works for you

-Mav

I get this all the time too. I think its i stay in the same social circle a lot. It gets annoying to deal with.. i take it as a shit test and don't be phased..

has anyone ever tried being more AFC to show less playerish?

a girl knowing ur a player is a good thing its a dhv - preselection!!if u say to a girl i used to be a player but ive settled down now looking for a serious relationship that should worka charm!

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what i always say when a girl thinks im a player i say define a player..
they always say a guy that messes with a lot of girls.. one that plays them...

i always say.. well am i a player if the girls know what i want and what i do?

i always tell my girls im not lookin for a relationship.. and that i do talk to other girls.. i tell them i like to have options...

nice tips.. this 1 has been fuckng me up 4 ages... lol

especially when i started sarging girls that were friends with girls i have slept with. lol

If a girl makes mention of your being a player reply, "Thank you. I think you're cool too. Actually . . . what kind of art do you?"

if you're advanced at this and can sense girls, then just dork it way up until she drops her guard, then come right in with increasing dominance and true male energy and keep going with it even when she starts to submit to you. That's what to do with high-maintenance girls from US and maybe parts of Europe. For more natural girls it's another story.


now, if you ain't that advanced - just say - yeah, I'm a player I do a lot of girls and see what she says, listen carefully how she reacts, and from that you can recover some facts about her and then act on them.

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