| So it all started last night, my buddy dragged me out for a last call drink. We went down a few blocks to this Rock bar called Tiny's. It's got some good music and diverse group of people. Small and dark with pictures of naked women on the wall.
I was looking for a target in hopes to get my friend to come out of his shell, he says he can never think of what to say next etc. and acting like a total AFC. So I opened up with one group of girls hoping he would come and join, but he didn't. He left to the other side of the bar, so I said fuck it and went with. I was giving him shit for not jumping in.
A couple minutes later we were having a drink and sitting up against the wall, people have to walk between us and the people sitting at the bar to get by. I was telling him that a little bit of bumping kino, you bump into her or vice versa, makes for a great opener. Literally a few seconds later a girl walks by and bumps into my friend and apologizes. I seize the opportunity and neg her a bit with some cocky funny asking if she is trying to hurt my friend, I immediately had her attention.
The conversation went from there, I threw in a couple of negs and what not, she introduced me to one of her friends, which was a tall guy and said don't worry they are not my boyfriends or anything so I was like whatever, does it look like I am worried?
Some how the conversation moved from there to how soft her skin was. At this point my buddy finally took charge, better late then never, by talking to her male friend so that I could isolate her. She rubbed her face and said "My skin is so soft", so I played some kino and rubbed my face against hers and said it is. I noticed her cheeks and told "her you have the cutest cheeks, the kind I like to bite.....may I bite them!" She said sure, and so I leaned in and gave her a nice juicy bite on her cheek! My buddy and her friend were in awe. We both began to laugh. I asked her a couple of basic questions, the boring AFC ones like where are you from? etc.....
At this point the lights came on in the bar, so I took the David Deangelo approach and gave my phone to her and said give me your number and I told here I would call her. We joked around for about a minute then I said we gotta go.
So, what did I learn from this experience? Within 5 minutes of meeting a girl I got her to allow me to bite her cheek and close a phone number. I am sure if I wanted to, I could have taken it further. I had never done something like that before, getting a girl to let me bite her cheek, and prooved to myself that I can control the environment around me. But more than anything I was trying to show my buddy that all it takes is an excuse to talk (the moment she bumped into him), some confidence, some kino, a bit of cocky funny and negging and improvising to win over a girl and like I said, this all happened within 5 minutes.
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