well man, all you can do here is to accept the fact that she is a popular girl, which she probably is, since she is pretty, and TRULY accept it.
You know, she'll message all she wants - but there is only a VERY small percentage of guys out there who can really get her to have sex with them. All the others, which is about 99% - are just entertainers. And unless a guy is really good, you will understand what's going on before she does it. Unless you're blind
Number 1 thing you need now - now, just observe how unnaturally you act around her and don't blame yourself, but just watch. If you can just watch your behavior - you can stop all your stupid jokes and take the situation under control. This is exactly what you need - control over your situation. There are many ways to control it, very effective ways, but for now if you can't control yourself first - you won't be able to control her. This is not a type of control through your will, but an unconditional one. So try that and don't trip, b/c most guys are jokes. Talk to your girl, make her feel like a woman.
