I'm kind of confused right now.

I've known this 20 year old hb8 for quite a while, but never really hung out with her alone. She was my friend's roommate.

We exchanged phone numbers and had a great night at this party on 4th of july. Massive kino and flirtation, I even slept in the same bed as her but didn't k close since there was lots of our friends around and other reasons.

She text messaged me out of the blue a few days later and wanted to hang out. She even made excuses for hanging out like asking me to come down so we can hang out with this other person who lives in her town. Also, she asked if I wanted to go sneak into this art fair that's in my town. She initiated.

Anyways, after many texts she seemed very interested, and she was even the first one to call me to make plans. We made rough plans for me to come down to her town, but only if she came up to my town the next week.

So, we were supposed to hang out tonight but I've heard no word from her in the past two days. I haven't called or texted her yet either but I'm really trying to not come across as needy.

I feel that she should call me today to give me directions to her place and tell me when she'll be ready.

I'm thinking of just flaking on her first since I foresee her flaking later today and maybe trying to set something up where she comes to my town next week.

I'm kind of confused on why should she would initiate the plans but then flake out...

Thoughts?

You set an appointment way too far in advance. Flake her with a message that something came up unexpectedly. "make something up that would only be slightly less important than meeting her". A NEG. be the "string " dangling in the air thats been resting on the ground for the past several days.

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CB

- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB

Yea it was a huge fuck up. I should of just called her Friday or Saturday to ensure the plans.

I ended up sending her a text saying i was hanging out with some old friends that were in town. I felt pretty shitty about doing that actually. I think she really wanted to hang out and I just kind of made it seem like I had better things to do... which wasn't the case.

Flaking for a semi-important reason is DHV no matter how much a chick might be disappointed or feel you are being inconsiderate. You're much more likely to lock her in on another appointment in which she WON'T flake on you.

Go out and sarge with some friends instead.

Whether she was going to flake and you did it first or if she wasn't going to but you did, It's a win-win situation either way you look at it. DHV

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CB

- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB

What are some good excuses bail on a chick?