Ok im hanging out with my ex tonight. we havent been together in about 2 years, but i havent had a g/f since her. ive dated around a lot since but havnet really found anyone. but we are gonna hang out tonight and i havent seen her in a good six months with occasional texts and what not. i need advice on how to game her, or at least let her see that im better off now then when i was with her. ya this may be one-itis, but im not sure if its something where ill want her back or just kinda rub in her face that im now more successful and motivated then ever and she missed her chance. how can i come off this way and possibly get her regretting leaving me/wanting me back, even if i dont want her back.

help please!!!!

-patience

Mate I am in exactly the same boat re: 'rubbing in face' and not knowing if I want to get back with her.

Problem is; mine is with someone else now and we don't talk much.

One of you heroes has to have some info for us.

Haha, you just want to lay her and her alone. Maybe that's why you have had no success with dating or "haven't really found anyone"?

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Make up stories with DHV spikes. Talk about how you went to the clubs, and that all the girls looked at you etc.

But most importantly, talk about "The club", "The Music","The barman". The rest (girls, fancy car, wads of money) just "accidentally" were there! And they're nice, but it wouldn't matter and you wouldn't care if they weren't there. That's because you are not needy

"I went to this new club and when I got out my car my buddy told me that all these girls were looking at us. We walked to the entrance and we were just let through the line! Apparently the bouncer thought the girls were with us!" (From the top of my head)

She'll think, Car? Girls? No Line? Wow, this guy has value! But she'll probably won't take the bait, and if you're not careful she'll think your a obnoxious, bragging person.
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But my best advice would be: GFTOW and realise that she's just a girl. A normal average girl, who is not even worth to take revenge on. Don't be bitter and don't use that as a excuse to learn seduction. Learn this to become strong socially.