Lets say I'm in a club and looking for a target should I first establish eye contact with the target or her friends before I approach the set (i.e wait till I get the glad eye) or should I just roll on up and give an opener a go?

The reson I ask is last night I tried to open cold with no eye contact established and got shot down bad. I used an opinion opener I saw on here asking the girl the difference between hot and cute. Her reply was:

"I don't have an opinion, and its really not OK to talk about that shit."

Fuck New Zealand girls are harsh what can I say. But it was my probably fault for not starting with any positive eye contact (plus I did forget to put a time constraint on the conversation).

remember to approach from a place where you will come into their view before you actually talk to them, and also obey the 3 second rule.