| Hi,
I'm currently in Tokyo with a friend of mine (staying for a month) and yesterday we went out clubbing. Since I've been working on my inner game, I didn't have the intention of sarge since I was looking for a good time, dancing, etc...
It was around 2 in the morning where my friend and I were considering leaving the club we were but whist walking towards the bar, we saw two Japanese girls standing by the lockers, we thought that we had nothing to lose so we approached them and this is where things started to get better.
I was dancing with one of the girls, I would say HB8, and after a couple of minutes, she began to rub her ass on me and after a while we began to make out. Since I was kinda trying to figure out my moves, I thought that I should be playful with her so I would withdraw my mouth from hers and lean back for a while until she kissed me again, like if she was chasing (I dunno how this came out but she kept kissing me back).
We were dancing but I was getting bored so I took her by her hand and said that we should seat in the corner, so we went there and there was this Japanese dude sitting there with a long face, so I told him to leave the table and he did (I dunno how this came out) but she sat in my lap and we began to french kiss. We would then go back and dance but then I would pull her towards the locker and while having my hands on the locker doors, began making out again.
After making out (like I've never done it before... hell, it felt like hours), I began being playful with her... like comparing her hands to mine, kissing her neck and touching her hair (and stuff like that), not telling her my age (she asked me a couple of times (I'm 22 but she was older), but I thought I'd keep the mystery, also because I had a bad experience with an older Japanese woman a while ago so I didn't really wanted to ruin it but saying that I was younger than her, in case if she freaked out, like the other did - I dunno how I came out by not telling her.. but all was done jokingly).
We then decided to leave the club, it was like 5am so we met with my friend and the girl he met and walked towards the station. One of the things we did (I've done this to appear as leading) was to walk with my friend in front of them so that we could talk and stuff while they were chatting behind us (Again, I dunno how this came out).
We were on the train and she sat next to me, while this happened, I would put my arm around her and then withdrawing it, make out and then withdraw. While thinking back, I dunno whether this was a good idea but she seemed to like it.
Since I've recently started to follow the PUA method and to improve myself, I wasn't really able to tell what signals she was sending me but I feel like there were times in which I would go all AFC (like when I'd tell her to kiss me and playing hard to get) but then I would try to lead and not follow.
The dylema that I've been having today is how should I carry this on (I've got her phone number... I didn't really ask for her number, just took out my phone and gave it to her after we were making out) since I thought we were having something going on. One issue is that my phone here doesn't really work, since the phone is from the UK, I can't make or receive incoming calls but I've been thinking of using my friend's phone to call her and arrange something for later on.
However, I dunno how to act while telling her/asking/suggesting her something to do as I haven't really been able to do so before but I'm willing to do it but could any body please give me some pointers on what should I do? say? etc...
I mean, the whole things has improved my self-esteem but there are still thought in the back of my head that would say that I should have done things better. Could anyone please tell me what I've done wrong and how should I improve this?
Sorry for the length of this post but I'd like to know your opinions and suggestions.
chr0nik
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