So I'm still new to this. Almost finished reading "then Game" which i will be rereading it and taking notes this time. Now I wanted to take some baby steps and not giant ones because I have AA which i need help getting over and i wanted your help and guidance.

So I was wondering the best place to talk to people and start my game would be at the mall ? Also I'm pretty sure its what I read in "the game" . But anyways I wanted to know what things I could do in the mall environment to start to meet people. So like with Employees, Strangers, Females, .....anyone.

Also I don't know if this would work but I thought about this when buying a shirt with a friend. If it happens it could be really good for ur game im assuming. So you would go to the female section of the store, and almost 95% of the time a employee would come up to you and ask if u need help with anything if its a male then say "no thanxs" if its a female say "yea but theres a problem" (If no one comes up to you look for a good looking girl and ask her if she could help you with something) Now you ask her opinion on which shirt looks the best on a girl because your buying one for ur friend. blah blah blah she gives her opinion and you neg her adn say "I don't about your taste but how about you go try it on for me and ill tell you how it looks" If she does (lol i dont know what to say if she doesnt) then when she comes out say something flattering to her. like wow that shirts looks amazing on you. I guess you do have taste in clothing after all. AND NOW im stuck lol don't know what should happen next but anyways ill be reading this later tonight so everyone please help me.

Thankxs a alot

Gelz

I dont know if this would work during busy hours at the mall. I worked at the mall and i had very little time to do much of anything, let alone try a shirt on for a customer.

In my opinion, this could possibly work around closing time (during the last hour of operation). Then it isn't as hectic. Even then you better lay the material down smooth and flash the smile a lot before u ask her to TRY IT ON.


.....Then you can ask to help her take it OFF!!! hah

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If you pull that thread succesfully let us know cos that would be cause for major rep, mainly because I think there is a high chance of rejection because why would a hot girl go to the trouble just for the sake of a complete stranger, however with the right timing and delivery it could be good and you'd also have to have displayed alot of DHV so that you got as much of her switches attraction switches turned on.

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You'd be on her home turf trying to DHV. Eye contact and non-hesitation is a MUST in this case though you will have reduced AA for having a legitimate reason for an approach.

I did the mall clothing store yesterday with good results. HB8

I was asking her to do something that was against employee rules and called her a "chicken" when she nicely explained that she couldn't. Your idea has a similiar chance of rejection that can be used to NEG her.

Let us know what happens.

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I'm willing to bet they won't try it on. I'm fairly certain any girl at my work would not do it, even if it is dead. And I wouldn't recommend going in near closing. At that point, we don't really want to help anyone and are just waiting for everyone to leave so we can fold everything and leave.

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I don't have an ego, I just love how awesome I am.

Mall is an awesome place to game. I personaly think its easier than night game. You have more legit reasons to approch. If you got real bad aa then someone recently gave some good advice (i don't like to poach off others so credit to the guy who said this). Just approch staff members first of all as they have to reply and be polite. If your really shitin it Approch everyone you can (men-women of all ages), just be socialable ask for directions or the time with a smile on your face with high energy and see their reactions as opposed to when you don't smile with low energy. Then start approching women away from you age group like if your 25 approch 40 year olds (no not to number close them just to be confident talking to a woman. Women are still women nomatter their age) just ask something simple like "wheres the nearest SPAM". Then when your more socially competant start getting closer to your own age (or the age you wanna pick up, you might like 40 year olds lol) and ask the same simple questions until you feel confident enough to stay in conversation. Then start gaming targets. Good luck dude.

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i think you shouldnt ask a girl to try it on cuase she would probibly not do it,u can make up some kind of dhv story telling basically how this gil you are buing the shirt to bought u a shirt to ur bday and it was amazing and keep the conversation going so she starts feeling comfertable and then going for routines and funny shit and get to know her and the no'close...

u can also tell another story instead, basically about another girl (not the one u r buing the shirt to) that got u a shirt or something to ur bday and it was terrible and u ddnt know what to do, u didnt wanna change it bc u ddnt want her to be offended... tell her this kind of stuff happands a lot and start laughing about it and ask her if something like this happend to her, probobaly did,(happends to everyone) family buing u gay books when u r 12 year old .... take it from there to the no close and good luck......
hope i helped -topazzzzz-

Great idea from the OP.

I really like it. Let us know if you come up with some follow up routines and repsonses for if she won't go along with it.

bdw another thing u can use at the mall is the cologne opener....
very simple if u dont know it just if theres a store with colognes, try some colognes and ask a random or someone that sells to smell both hands....
"which one is better"..."so u think i should buy this one?"......blablalba negg...blablabla neg blablabla dhv blabla....................................

a lot of opinion openers, if with friend can have an opinion on a movie...(just thought of this opinion opener:)....then somehow make them come with u to the movie....yeah its good i need to work a little on that one, its not that complicated)

sorry for the teribble english vocabulary...u didnt even hear my accent yet but whats "op"?? or is it pu vocabulay?

O.k so if I were to use the cologne opener what would I say after. Like im still lost at the point where how do i develop the conversation. Like do i lead a neg right after and which one would i use in this situation and how would i use it.

what does OP mean?

no clue i didnt post it lol but can anyone help me with my question

its also a serious sticking point for me, im just starting to understand it but what i think u should do is understand why she is there ..probabily buying cologne maybe u can neg her or tell her the other cologne is better...blablabla...anyone has any better ideas??

Origional "first" Post. Or referring to the person who made the origional post.

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