I was out with a couple of friends tonight, two male and one female. Well the female brought another friend along, an HB8. The night started out right, i was alpha, saying all the right things and then i just lost it. I started getting tired, and just kinda went into myself. I don't know what went wrong, it just kinda went downhill. So any advice on getting over this problem, please I need it.

i hate to sould liek a douche but charisma is something either you have or not

but you really dont need charisma to pick up girls, just work on your game more

To attempt to help you we need to know what you felt that suddenly made you lose control of the situation? Had you not been succesful in approaching that night? If so theres no need, as Mystery says in the Venusian Arts Handbook you should be prepared to reck a whole room and not give a shit. Anyways get in touch and make the reason why your energy level dropped clear. In regards to Charisma this factor of your personality relies on how much fun you're having so next time you find yourself down look over the room and head over to the most interesting looking set!

I have a feeling you weren't too interested in her personality. I kinda get that way when I feel like I'm just entertaining to get at pussy. For me, the best way I keep my energy up is to be truly feel like there's something special going on. There needs to be a certain element of uncertainty there that keeps the curiosity going. It's hard if the person is dull, but everybody has something that makes them tick. If you truly can't find anything, focus on something else to keep the energy up. Just try to enjoy the ride as much as you can.

If you think otherwise, let me know.

btw,
LeDerek: you should work on your responses more.

Avoid getting tired? Or don't let it change your state.

You need to be able to get into the correct state if you feel you are unaligned - you can use affirmations, music, whatever helps you get into that focus.

Charisma is basically just the outward display of confidence