this was a terriable move but i told the girl i liked her... yeah its bad haha
now she dosnt like me back sucks.. also oneitis which sucks also.. now in about 1 month theres a party now how should i act just ignore or be all like hey sup and just see how it goes ?

I wouldn't call/text her anymore, but if she initiates a chat via text or whatever you should talk with her. But don't sound too desperate to talk with her, sort of play it off like you have been really busy with important stuff and have barely even though about her.

If I were you, at the party I would casually walk by her and just say "hello" or "whats up" and keep moving past her. If she chases after you, you are back in with her and could possibly start running game on her. Basically, you are the prize not her, let her chase you, instead of vice versa. That being said you can't ignore her and exspect her to come up to you and start talking with you...

If you really wanted to try and turn the ship around right now you could try to do several things. I do not know the entire situation so you have to decide if its past the turning point (for now..) or not. Tell her that you meant that you "like her enough to keep talking to her" or that you like her "better than your ex girlfriend, who was a real bitch..". But like I said before you have to know if its too late to turn the ship around.

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shes talking to one of my good freinds which is funny and gay at the same time lol.. but yea im diffently guna try that next time i see her in person... she liekd me once like 2 years ago or 1 year ago but it was on and off a little bit cuz she had a BF

Try getting your mind off of her. Looking desperate is the worst thing you can do. Are there any other girls that catch your eye? Maybe pick up some other hobbies to fill your time. I find the busier I am with school, work, and other stuff, the more girls chase me. I wouldn't talk to her as much, but wouldn't stop talking to her all together. Try to show that the fact that she doesn't like you back doesn't phase you. As Smarts put it, You are the prize. Never forget that.

exctally dude.. but then at that party im gunna try shit... like what that other dude said say "hey sup" and walk right by u know. dont talk my word on this cuz i would totaly be wrong but i think shes on of the girls who u can get her to like u if her freinds like u, any 1 know what i mean

Okay my response is similar to smarts. The party is in a month so you have time to prep yourself up study this forum and learn some solid game. Don’t let her see you in this month and keep communication brief or none. Change your hair, buy a whole new outfit, whatever so when you arrive at this party it’s like a new you. To get her off your mind use this technique I read in the game from Style... Instead of focusing on how good she is and how much you want her focus on things you don’t like about her like how she thinks she's too good for you and how she's chatting to your mate and blow them out of proportion in your mind to be terrible things. Think of her as not worthy for you. When the party does come around try and show up with a group of girls which your friends with that she doesn't know hang around them KINO (touching, cuddling, arm around) them up talk to everybody just get in the mindset that your a fucking rockstar and that she has to earn your attention. When you see her or speak to her for the first time just give her a nod or a smile say you didn’t recognise her or something throw her a few negs as well with a FTC (false time constraint) do some push and pull then roll off. Most likely she will try and engage convo with you again later in the night before this go back to your usual been life of the party. When the time comes get back in separate her from everyone else use your material you have learnt and hopefully you will get a close. But who knows mate come the party you mite be so interested in the game you will be closing higher HBs then this girl and wont even bat an eyelid her way.

sounds fuckin awsome.. what are FTC's?? in reality shes about a HB 8.5ish so how many times should i neg and when should i role off.. im just asking so when i go their i fucking gotta plan down and ill be more ocnfident, but if it dosnt go as correctly then i can think of other things 2 do

i would freeze her out for a while unless she comes back to you, and when she does, at first act uninterested and maybe use some push-pull or negs

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Alright this is a nice challenge. Enter the party and pick another girl to run game on, you dont have to really find this girl attractive as long as she is cosmetically pretty, she will act as your pawn. Now with this new conquest by your side enter the same set that the girl you really like is in. After opening the set, greet the girl you like briefly and enter into conversation with the rest of the set. At this time you want to have kino going on with your earlier conquest whilst throwing rare negs at the other girl which you hope to get with. Observe for IOIs. If IOIs are evident leave the set with your earlier conquest and start to hit multiple sets around the party. At one point you want to be seen having a bunch of laughs with your guy friends. By now you have shown you are the leader of men, you have a bunch of social proof and that you are pre chosen by women. Now for the ending. Rejoin the set that has the girl you really like BY YOURSELF. Start to give her more attention and try to build kino. At this party you really want to build comfort and not think about moving to the seduction stage, Im sure if you follow my plan you will get the girl.

This may seem complicated but it is actually the easiest way to get back in with her after having demonstrated lower value as you have done already. In the meantime keep contact with her to a minimum. Because you have mentioned that she is dealing with a friend of yours you really want to protray yourself as Alpha so that she discards your beta friend in favour of the new Alpha you.

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haha im a be studing this thread befour the party haha... well when i talked to that girl or girls in general in person... im ususaly pretty good but then after i open and maybe 1 neg im not sure what to go into, and also the girl im trying to game gets desrtracted easly.. haha i was talkin to her ontime and some 1 else got ehr attenten to i used "HEY! HEY! attention difficiate disorder the shows over here and pointed up and down my face" she laughed and we continued talking.. now should i do that again if i happens?

So you mean after you have returned by yourself, you're going to have a problem holding her attention? I've got a long post in this thread- talk-about-what-vt24607.html which talks about holding convo with young girls, you basicaly need to make the convo interesting and exciting, i would recommend talkin about something which you are interested in and not let her talk for too long... my post in the link above gives a more detailed account.

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just talk about what i like for a little while then leave ?? if yes then wate for her to come talk to me or i go talk to her....

now how can i be alpha at the party..? sorry for all the fuckiin questions lol

no, once you exit with your earlier conquest you return to her by yourself and stay to escalate things however dont try and get her in bed, she'll get buyers remorse again, take things slowly. If you follow what I said in my long post a few comments earlier(the really long one ) you would have already shown yourself as an alpha male by having been seen with another girl, being sorrounded by friends, and having an all round good time, you basicaly want her to think you dont think much about her until the moment when you return and sweep her off her feet.

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how can i sweep her off her feet

i told the same girl...
" im glad i stoped likeing you"
and she says " keep talking to elishia" some girl who likes me thats i dont really like but still

now should i talk to the girl i said i dont like u no more, i was mad but i still kinda do now shes like upset i guess cuz i guess this guy she like likes her but also likes her bestfriend or something idk what should i do?