Ok so I go into the bank one day and see this beautiful girl. She works at the bank as a bank teller. So I go up to her so I can engage in a conversation and see what kind of girl she is. I mentioned sum stuff about her name cuz it is a pretty unique name and just various stuff. From the conversation I can tell she is really sweet and from a close up also she is beautiful.

Since then Ive been to the bank a few more times to talk to her and stuff like that. So I found her on facebook and started to talk to her on there too.

Well One day I go there with this guy I work with and I told him about her. So he asks if she is single and she said yea and he asked where she was from. So shes from the area.

So another day I go to the bank to withdraw some money. It was only 500 dollars and she made a statement about me and the money and she asked if I was goin shoppin. I should of right there said yea and asked her to come join me and got her information. For some reason I said something else.

So on facebook I start writing to her

Me: Hey Whats Up, so I need sumone to help me spend all that money shopping, wanna come wit

Her:lol you found me on facebook! Idk shopping with me sounds like a crazy idea.. U dont know what ur in for haha.. I'm just playing .. I'll see you around

Me: lol yea i was just playin around and put ur name in there for fun and found you

I need to buy a few new suits and I could use sumone that has a good sense of style, and judging by the way you can make a commerce bank outfit look attractive, Its obvious that you have a sharp eye for fashion, so what do u say

Her:haha that was very sweet.. I'll think about it (:

So Im guessing that to her Im like a complete stranger and shes bein very cautious. Although we do have like 11 friends in common on facebook. Shes only 19 and I'm 20

I think I have to figure out how to get her to be more attracted to me for sure cuz were just aquaintences.

What do YOU think

How do I overcome the I'll think about it statement

I think there lies the problem, you have gone into the bank just to talk to her. This immediately conveys to her that you are persuing her. Had you gone into the bank and her seen you do some 'bank related buisness' it would appear to her that you just talk to her cos you happen to already be there. You have given her too much value already and by adding her on facebook and initiating all conversations it appears, you are appearing even a bit needy.

As your next response id wait a bit and go into the bank( do some banking of a nature) then when you see her ask her for her opinion on an item of clothing she hasnt seen before. Then tell her that some girl helped you pick it out when you went to spend all that money. Let her know that she lost the chance this time to help you shop and a different girl took her place. Take some of that control back dude.

Hope this helps

I'll give it a try

I was just goin to go in there and man up and ask to go out or go on a date

Eww no. Don't ask her on a date! Just tell her you should get together some time, it's much less pressure and awkwardness than a date and it will be much more effective, as well as increasing her chances of saying yes.

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Maybe even next time you go in, go to a different teller, and just look at her and smile as if you are saying hi, and leave.
That should throw her off for sure. You also need more comfort.
Plus she might think its a little creepy, that you randomly found her on facebook, after barely knowing her.
I dunno just my perspective, hope it helps