Yea so here it goes this is my first question ever. Pretty nervous writing but gotta start some time.

So here it goes. I know this girl who is an HB8 and she likes me and has given me IOI's and we've talked a lot. The problem is that she wants to be in a relationship with me. Im not looking to be in a relationship any time soon. I just want to have fun. How can I get out of this situation without her losing interest in me and me having results?

This is the first of many. I got a friend who will be working together with me and vise versa so we are planning on hitting the streets and what not. Is it better to have 1 wingman or 2 ? any pros and cons... thats about it for now.

Thanxs a lot guys, all replies and effort is appreciated.

Gelz

I would appreciate a answer to the first question as well. I have a girl thats a 5-6 that really likes me. She even asked me out on a date!! I like her as a friend, but as of now, nothing more. Its sort of an akward situation because we were teamed up as partners in a class (in college)and she was texting me the other day... almost 6 months after our project. Get this guys, this was before I got into the PUA community. I didn't even game her lol.

Honesty will hurt least long term.

Yea but how do i go about telling her....and how can i not get her crushed because our relationship to be something better then just friends....anyways i don't know if that sounds confusing but please help.

K, you ready? This is gonna make you laugh.

Think like a girl. This happens them ALL THE TIME. Like all the fucking time. I know girls with like 100 friends that are guys and damn near every one wants to have sex with her, or have a relationship with her and that's the main reason he's friends with her. You know these girls too and perhaps you've even been one of those guys, I know I've been one. What does a GIRL say in this instance?

Lovesickguy: "We should go out sometime"
HBwithwaytoomayguyfriends: "Like...one a date?"
Lovesickguy: "....Yeah"
HBwithwaytoomayguyfriends: "I don't want to mess up our friendship"

I have a friend that just had her asshole bf break up with her and I was thinking to myself, "Thank god, she'll finally find a decent guy now." So she starts talking to this guy and says he's a good guy and they just instantly clicked and he's attractive and he just had a girl reject his proposal, so they're both all upset. I say, "Perfect, you guys should totally hook up, you'll get over those people together, it'll be better than all the depression and moaning." WHAT DOES SHE SAY?!

Me: "go hook up with him"
HB: "meh"
Me: "not attractive eh?"
HB: "he is"
HB: "i don't want to mess up my friendship"

Keep in mind, this is a guy that she JUST started talking to within the last 2 weeks or something and that she's only really hung out with once. If she is capable of saying this about a guy she JUST started being friends with, then you have every right to say it to some girl you've known for a while, or that you just plain aren't interested in and just started being friends with.

Say it. She'll be thrown for a loop, cause that's a chick line and she won't even know what hit her.

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So if i was talking to her....when would i bring this up ? i mean I'm not just going to say " hey i don't want to mess up my friendship"

How do i say it so i don't hurt her ? and do you think she will be hurt if i were to say that ?

Also yea i get what u mean when u say think as a girl.......lol this scenario is so true it happened to a couple of guys i know and the girl just doesn't have the same relationship with that guy like they used to have before because it just seems awkward. She rejected him......hes mad at her....and yea two good friends lost...