So anyway, there's a beach themed party on Tuesday night, and i've been looking around for good peacocking stuff and trying to perfect some routines and stuff.. I want to make it work this time.

So i'm in town with my mates.. (we all put a sesame street character tee on in topman and took pictures LOL). Some of them split and went to college and I went home with a few of the other guys. When I arrive.. I receive a text message:

"Boo! X."

I was like.. WTF. It was from this girl who i've had a kinda history with when I was uber AFC. Could've had her but.. too AFC lol. Anyway to cut a long story short, she basically thinks i'm a twat now or so i've heard and she had been ignoring me and didn't wanna meet up and stuff so I thought i'd leave it.. I've got bigger fish to fry. I haven't spoken or seen her for a week or two.

"Ahhh! Ermm.. Hello stranger?"

":) i saw you with XXXX. How are you? I have a proposal for you! Not sure if thats the right word but yea. X."


"Haha, yeah you gotta love XXXX! I'm amaze ta. You? Go ahead?"

"Im ok. Are you going to the party on Tuesday? X."

"Yes."

"Want someone to walk home with? X"

"Haha, I think i'll find someone at the time. Why, are you offering?"

"Might be :p X."

"Cool, what are you going to wear?"

"Clothes I think. You? X."

"Wait and see."

So yeah, basically I think I can probably k-close and possible f-close "walking home" with her. The thing is I am so pumped for this party.. the plan is to game some HB's #close, k-close and see what happens. Should I still go with the plan, she'll get jealous.. but at the end of the day she was a bonus?

She's a very confusing girl :S

Any help appreciated.

Hood.

"Don't wanna ruin this" = Already ruined

You need a mental shift.

i find when you go out and just have a good time and enjoy yourself, people are more attracted to you anyway. She has already shown interest, so go have a good time and dont worry about it

This girl has already shown an interest in you, therefore you're one up on your game with her. This is, however, presuming that all you want is a K-close or F-close.

If, on the other hand, you want to develop your game, then play the field a little, make things difficult for yourself and approach a stranger. You never know, this too could lead to a K-close or F-close.

In any case, however, theedge!'s advice stands: Have fun!

Hood like chief said the last thing you want to be doing is worrying about screwing this up. Instead of the aim being to k-close or f-close this girl instead head out with the aim of just practicing your game. Maybe come up with an opener and go out with the aim of field testing it. This way you won't be thinking about this one interaction and will probs have a really good time.
The girl will prob notice this anyway and you will be in a better stead with her because of it.

Have a good time dude.

Ok then. Having fun is what I do best! I'll just go out and have a blast and game a few sets and see what happens!

Cheers for the advice guys