Do many people here go out sarging by themselves? None of my friends are into PUA. I think it makes it easier if your friends are there to push you into sets.

It's very easy for you to talk yourself out of it when you're by yourself.

I sarge by myself ALL the time nobody I know is a PUA and most of my friends are complete idiots when it comes to picking up women so I have nobody to sarge with that knows anything about anything its actually frustrating because its more fun to take your friends out so when you take like say (my brother in law) out and you neg a girl they tend to chime in with dont worry he just likes to talk shit and it sucks so I go out sarging by myself all the time yes but its more enjoyable with people around to have fun with you shouldnt need anybody to push you into sets just follow the 3 second rule and you will be great just show confidence and blow your AA out of the water also if you want to we have a section on this forum for you to list where you live or find people in your area that are fellow pua's you can meet up with them and sarge if you like I plan on doing it soon

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Teaching some RAFC friends of mine at the moment, but I mostly sarge myself. Haven't found a competent wing as of yet. Alone works great for me.

Uh I think everyone around here is an AFC or an ULAFC.

ULADFC is my way of sayin Unnaturely Lucky Average Frustrated Chump.

Sorry didn't see the D in there.

i have a friend who is PUA
iv been practicing pickup relativley liad back for the last few years.

i cannot sarge with him,
he see's everybody as AFC
he is too big headed.
i introduced him to my friend
and one of the first things he said was
"dont you even know who i am" when she asked for his name.
he dosnt amog people but will just laugh at something he doesnt understand.
im constantly asked to be his wing and give him that help
but end u directing the set because he can suck all the energy out of it.

sometimes sarging alone is good, we'l go out together and meet up throughout the night but we wont be in each others sets, we give each other social proof and HV but other than that it dosnt work.
i like going out with afc's just because they take stuff alot more relaxed and mite not get results but are out for fun, and i find when your out having fun then your opened more times than when your sarging because people wnat part of your fun.

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everyone around you is a wing, or pivot.

i prefer the party scene (im a college student) and i open a set. guys or girls, doesnt matter.

and with the girls, i build some initial comfort, then run the lets go make friends bit.

with guys its pretty much the same. "i don't really know anyone here, lets meet some girls" something like that.

adapt it. seems to work most of the time.

feedback?

good luck guys

call me the lone ranger and honestly I prefer it. While it is nice to have some support from time to time, I just like going out and doing my thing. Let's say I'm day sarging, I'll walk up to a chick/set and open them directly "Hi, How are you/guys, I'm just walking around meeting new people today..." and then I go into my routines. When I go to clubs I try to go to the biggest ones, multiple floors and I will bring one, 2 wings tops and we each split up and take a floor, we open sets until we get in good, then we gauge and call each other accordingly using small radios since its impossible to use your cell with it being so loud. Thats my system baby!

- d mid

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i usually sarge alone, or with some friends who stand by ackwardly watching...(not a benefit)...

when i need to isolate someone, i introduce them, or bring in some new personal into the set and start a conversation with them and the rest of the set... then isolate the target....

I am considering sarging alone ,have a stupid friends as well who think girls are supposed to come and talk to them ,Havent tried yet ,just educating myself at the moment

Sometimes I sarge alone and sometimes not. You get the social proof from your friends but if they do not understand the game they may end up destroying a good sarge...

I feel silly alone so I am very indirect and situational. I tend to aim at people working for this - flyer girls, receptionists, cashiers. People that are more open to conversation. I'm basically just a big baby alone and I know it.

Night game I split from my friends a lot as they're bar hangers and that just doesn't generate enough action at all.

If you think about it, you walk up to a bunch of people and they're probably not wondering why you are alone - for all they know you are very close friends with everybody within 3 miles. If they ask if you're alone, just say no... your friends went to get ice cream/pick up dry cleaning/reserve a table/call their accountant/tie their shoes.

if you're a regular at someplace you can get proof from the staff and other regulars. that parts not hard

Here's an example of a solo sarge....I hadn’t sarged in two weeks and felt rusty so went out on Saturday night. Got to a bar about an hour early to make friends and ask the barman for his name (setting up DHV for when the HBs began to troop in later). Was moving around, saying hi and introducing myself. Anyway, this guy walks in with four HBs, lowest is a 6, highest a 9. Sits with them at a middle table and the AFCs move in. Each is torn apart and I’m seeing all this from the corner of my eye…and they haven’t even ordered drinks yet!

I ask the barman for a napkin, place it on my palm and walk up to the table. “Your orders, please,” I pressure the guy. He looks at me quizzically and the HB9 notices I’m not a waiter then smiles.

“Anyway, when you’re ready to order I’ll be at the table drinking my beer.”

HB6: “You’re not supposed to drink on the job.”
Me: “Is that why you guys are not taking anything? I’ll be at the bar.”

But instead of going to the bar, I DHV by calling the barman by name and tell him “don’t serve this table, they’re working right now.” An HB7 at the bar looks at me and we hold the stare for a few seconds before she faces the bar again.

Four guys walk in and the AMOG looks like he wants to destroy the competition. They take the table next to the four HBs. The HB7 at the bar orders a tequila then takes it right at the counter and frowns as it sinks in.

”Why didn’t you just order a Fanta?”

She punches me in the shoulder and I’m like “dude, you wanna take this outside?” and she laughs, “maybe I do!”

I grab her hand and walk out of the bar with her. Outside, her hand still in mine, I’m like “dude, you’re so drunk you don’t need a breathalyzer test.”

While I kino, she goes on about how she’s still sober while she literally breathes on my face. so I toss her hair to the side and kiss her on her lips and she’s full-on, kissing me back. We kiss for about 10 seconds and I pull away, “you’re not drunk, you’re horny.”

A slap on the shoulder and I tell her, “let’s go back inside” and she follows me, we dance for about 5 minutes and I’m seriously doing my kino and she’s rubbing against me.

Her shit test only came when I was moving in to f-close; she asked me why I wanted to drop her home, told her “coz my place is nearer from here.” The guy with the HBs had his work cut out with the AMOG and his wingmen, don’t know how that went but good luck to him. It’s over here that I read, the last set is the DHV for the next…. I need your thoughts though on how I could have done more with that table of HBs.

that's a good story, it's kind of funny how pickup is adapted to fit your style. I heard about the community over a year ago, did some reading, but not until I started practicing did I really understand what it was really all about. Just today for example, I get back from work at 7pm, i have to wake up early tomorrow, so I only have time to go for a walk in the city and meet random people. I'm starving so I see this group of 3 college chicks go into a subway and I follow, get my food and pretty much tell them i'm sitting with them 'cause i'm new to that area and i'm looking to meet people, so that just allows you to skip the opener and go straight into routines, which is good since a meal can take only 10 mins. I neg the hb8 a bit and talk to her friends, probably hb6.5 & hb7. The hb8 tries to say something smart, so I DHV w/ a routine I found outside of the community. So you pretty much go like "u think ur smart?" hb8: "sure" you "u think u can control both ur arm and leg at the same time?" hb8:"of course dude" you: "I bet u can't draw sixes in the air w/ ur right hand and make clockwise circles w/ ur right foot" (use some kino to put up her hand) After trying a few times and seeing her fail we all start laughing. I #closed her right after and said I had some business to finish since they mentioned they were going shopping and stuff, but I texted her right after and she replied. Just a random story I guess, but that's what happens if u put some time into this, some of it starts becoming second nature.