Ok, so I met this girl about a month ago, she is only 16 and smokin' hot. (In case you were wondering 16 is legal in England, ) She is at least a 9 probably be a full blown 10 in a couple of years. She has got it all, gorgeous face, tight little body, 32F boobs!! (I know, imagine when she hits 18!! )

I should point out that I am only 20 so the age difference is ok. When I met her we spent the whole night chatting and got on really well. I got a number close and would have got more only her Gran (!!!) was at this social event (community thing)!! Since then we have texted eachother, chatted, etc. She is very open about sex (not a virgin) and is giving me great IOIs (basically inviting me to spend the night, etc + very sexual chat).

Obviously I would love to f-close this girl but I have two reservations. 1. I know her Gran from locally and I would feel a bit bad seeing her afterwards, especially as she thinks her grandaughter is a darling virgin. Lol. 2. I believe in the philosophy that if you hook up with a girl it should be a positive experience for her too (btw, pet-moan, I think the community is forgetting this). I just worry because she seems to be very sexual and sees herself as a sex object for men, using this as her only way to get attention. I realise shagging her won't make much difference to her self-beliefs but I suppose what I am really asking is for advice on how to make the experience something more than fucking, so that she feels I am with her for herself, rather than her kick-ass body!! Help very much wanted!!

Well, you could always try and make it more than sex. Have a relationship? If you're not looking for this, you could let her know that you want a relationship, but various factors (such as your age, perhaps) prevent this from being so. Either way, hopefully this will make her think that you like her for who she is, and not just for her body, and so she might begin to see herself as more than just an object of lust.

I meant to say in the original post. This girl was just visiting her Gran, she lives around 25 miles from me, so a relationship is not ideal (though it might work?).

Well, you can use that as an excuse, then. Let her know that you like her for who she is, but tell her that the distance makes a relationship impossible. (Unless, of course, you want a relationship, in which case decide for yourself if the distance is too far).

The important thing is to make sure that she sees you as interested in her, as a person, and not as a sex object.

Make her know you rae interested in her as a person. Dont make it a one night stand, and make it ALL about her. Um isnt every girl someones granddaughter . And finally 25 m long distance... you've gotta be joking. Unless you ride a Bicycle thats about a half an hour of driving, which isnt bad at all. I may be biased all my girls are around 30 miles away from me.

I thought the same thing until I looked at where he is from. What is gas at in England? $3 Euro a liter? Probably doesn't have a car.

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HAHA. Petrol is a little under £1/litre which is a bit under $2/I think. I do have a car, but it is difficult for us to find time to get together, and with the drive taking around an hour (lots of small roads), and paying for petrol out of meagre student allowance, it just makes it a bit trickier. It would be hard to get together more than 1 or twice a fortnight. She would expect more than that sadly.

Age difference is no problem...but it is a BIG factor...in fact it is probably why she is so interested in you...use it to your advantage and try to act more mature and older without making her feel immature or young...SHe is still just a girl but wants to be treated like a woman.

If she wants to be treated like a sex object then if you get all romantic and lovey with her she might loose intrest and find someone who will treat her like the slut she (thinks) she is.

The 25 mile thing is great IMO. A great excuse for you to stay at arms length from her yet get intimate and close when you want.

Gran...wtf...you are a good guy and her gran should be glad she is with you because I can guarantee if she's not f*ing you she will be f*ing someone else - and gran won't be in the bed room with you (i Hope) so she won't know that you and her gran daughter are bumping uglies.

As a last piece of advice she is hot and 16 - the chances of her staying hot as she gets older are slim...if she has 32Fs now as she gets older the rest of her body will grow into her breasts. Either that or she will one day keel over.

Good work you seem smooth and I admire that you have no problem gaming younger girls (though I am a bit older than you). BTW here in Quebec legal is 14 (as long as there is no anal lmao)

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He mate as long as u r not 45 its ok rock her world just take care of those small details if u are 45 and she is 16 u should go home and talk to ur shrink lol

But if u are 19 or stuff and she is 16 u are in tune mate, keep up just try not to get cynical

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Thanks Damage! It sounds dumb but I never thought of it like that! She probably does just want a grown up sexual relationship and treating her as a 'slut' (?) would seem to be part of what she wants!
HAHA!! You are probably right, I better get stuck in before she capsises!! She works out quite a bit so I figure she will stay fit until 20 minimum, oh I'm feeling good now.

Yeah but the term slut is counter-productive, I shouldn't have even used it. Let's call it 'sexually liberated'... and liberate her sexuality much in the way the US is currently liberating Iraq.

As far as the age goes...if you can snag her AND keep her fit for years to come you will have my respct and admiration.

Besides that, post a pic already goddamit!

There you go guys. A little snippet from a photo she sent me. It doesn't really do her justice but was the best that was 'suitable' for posting

Hope you enjoy the little you can see here!

Might be appropriate, Might not.
But I believe no matter how old you get if you can pick-up a younger girl, you deserve her.
There are of course the legalities of it all, not attempting to be wrong here at all.
But if you are capable no matter how old and wrinkled you are, you deserve it.

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