Hey mikehawk.
Thanks man... but thats not really my style man. Its more chilled and relaxed.

Besides, thats been done already.

The question is – I want to try and save it.. How do I do it without taking the ‘forget about her’ angle!

It's not the mature thing to do, it's giving in to the LJBF. Don't do it man. Yeah things worked out for Style, but they could have went the other way as they have for 100s of other guys. If you really don't want to drop this make sure you "accidentally" run into her. Calling will pretty much guarantee you will be nothing more than friends ever.

Obviously you are going to do what you want, but the odds are against things going in your favor if you call. Let me know how it works out though.

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Alright - UPDATE.

So went out this weekend and f-closed a random HB7 and then went back to another club and k-closed another HB7. Feeling alot better about the whole situation - but still want my Oneit.

Sunday - I get an sms from my Oneit HB10 saying "Hey, hope you had a good weekend. Please dont forget i am always here and i still very much think your kind of a big deal ".... The "kind of a big deal" thing is a joke from anchorman (the movie) we've had going for awhile.

I didnt reply.

Today she sends me a joke forward (email) saying "I know you dont want me to contact you but you would appreciate this" (refering to the joke).

I didnt reply.

Suggestions?

Beautiful man! You held out, went sarging, and stuck to your guns. Well done, you deserve an e-high five! Now she is regretting letting you go. At this point I think if you really want to seal the deal you gotta make sure to run into her, but make it seem coincidental. I'm not sure how, or even if you can arrange that, but that would maximize your chances of success.

If you cannot arrange to meet her "by chance", and choose to contact her now electronically, simply state that "I still don't agree to the idea of lets just be friends, friends don't pigeonhole friends like that, but I can agree not to move the relationship to a place you're not ready for." possibly not in those words, but with that message conveyed. This will not be as effective as say running into her while with another girl, but you seem pretty damn persistent and if you play this right it could work.

Good luck, personally I'd hold out for a week or so if you really need to send the message.

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What ever happened to sex, drugs, and rock n' roll. Now all we got is aids, crack, and techno.

Rexlexia, thanks man. I really do value your opinion. Will wait for her birthday on Thurs and give her a call. But Im not quite sure I know what I’m going to say to her about not replying her sms/email.... we’ll see.

Go caveman, go !

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