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I think im not bad of a kisser but how do i know if im good and how can i improve?

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

Practice, practice, practice!

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When you're with a girl that you can talk with comfortably about your sexual interactions, not just a girl that you met in a club that night, then you can ask her what she thinks of how you kiss, ask if there's room for improvement, if there's anything you could do better and then get the tips on what would improve it.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

but what if shes not good either? then we are both going to suck
i tried just watching youtube videos but any other actual tips?

I know Medic said practice, but how do you practice when you dont know what the final goal is suppose to be like?

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

Learn to feel it. I didn't kiss a girl until I started this journey but kissing is definitely one of my strengths. The first girl I kissed told me that I was the best kisser she's ever encountered (she didn't know that she was my first kiss - thought I was more experienced than that).

Get in the moment - Start off slow and gradually build up the intensity. Use only lips until you're sure she's ready, then you can brush your tongue along her lips to see if she wants to start some tongue action.

A good kiss will get a girl intrigued, and a great one will get her hooked.

You can usually tell by the way she reacts like ending it quickly and pulling back, not wanting to kiss (assuming that she likes you)

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

well i think im a good kisser than as she always comes back for more. but is there anyway to make it even better? like tips and advice

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

just don't do it like you're thumb wrestling with your tounges

Actually Cupid, the best way to kiss a girl is to "feel" the way she kisses you.
What I'm saying is, if she kisses you lightly, then that's how she likes to be kissed back! If she opens her mouth and thrusts her tongue in your mouth...Well, it kinda' writes itself doesn't it? So if you want to kiss her, and always kiss her the right way, tell her to kiss you, and "feel" the way she likes to be kissed. She basically does your "homework" for you !

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well like the others have said, practice! try out new things. try light lip sucking or biting. try more tongue or less tongue. if there is one thing i can tell u WATCH YOUR TEETH. im a modest person but ive been told that im a amazing kisser but some of the girls i have kissed have made the mistake of going in too strong and then the infamous "teeth scratch" occurs and there is no excuse for that. for kissing just start off gentle and work your way up, relax and just go with the flow, dont fight it. also if u can, pay attention to what the girl does and return the favor. i know if i like my lip bit im gonna bit hers to hint to reciprocate. watch the saliva flow too. if it gets to wet take a break from the lips and move to an ear or neck to kinda get your breathing back and so forth.

hope these were the tips you were looking for

-Patience

what I like to do is a little push/pull within the first couple of minutes. I start with a few gentle kisses and in general being slow and unless I can feer her lust, at some point I speed up just for a second and then back off, separate our lips but keep them really close and maybe really lightly brush them against hers. If she pushes towards me, I pull back just a little bit to keep the same separation (cat-string). She usually opens her eyes at that point and give me a strange look but if I just give her a playful smile without moving she'll usually hold me tighter and try to give a "oh yeah? take this" kind of kiss . It'll usually be very intense and you can go from there.

Now that I described it, it sounds really strange to me, but I had good reactions every time I did it. I definitely does three things:
1. Shows that you're don't suddenly go ubercaveman after the first gentle kiss, that you have the patience and it makes kissing easier later on. Also, I do similar stuff later on, so it's consistent (I do it subconsciously).
2. I think a good kiss is shared, not given and by doing this you basically make her qualify to you with her kiss. It would be kinda rude if you just pulled back and expected her to take initiative, but this way you just tease with her.
3. It's a tiny neg, but with a playful look from you it'll occupy her mind with actually wanting to escalate the kiss without you initiating it.

These are a few good things off the top of my head, but I just do it naturally and really enjoy the moment when she's a bit confused, opens her eyes being extremely close and I just smile playfully, she smiles back, we look into each other's eyes and she kisses me really intensely. Also I like C/F and it's just another tease and kinda saying "just kissing doesn't take you off the hook" and it's fun.

these are some excellent tips,
i still have one last question. what do you do when you use your tongue? do you just put it in her mouth or move around her own tongue? or what exactly ?

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

You can do a few things. You can kinda play tag, you can swirl your tongue around hers, you can "roll" your tongue into her mouth if you have good control over it, you can use your tongue like it's your dick and her mouth is her pussy, you can suck on her tongue and she can suck on yours. Play around.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

elaborate please!

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

Well, you kiss her and basically lock lips, then start thrusting your tongue in and out at a "medium" pace I guess, lol. This can be done well, or it can be done poorly, just like any technique, so if something doesn't go over well right off the bat, just try to get a feel for it and judge from her responses. I personally don't do this really unless she's really horny and wants it really bad, there's much more tactful and sensual techniques, like the tongue sucking one.

In order to get a girl to suck your tongue, the best way is to first suck her tongue (like someone else said, you do stuff to her and she'll most likely do them to you, especially if she really liked it). You can try coaxing her to stick her tongue in your mouth if it isn't already there and do a sort of "come hither" with your tongue to her tongue (you know, kinda curl upward and try to pull her tongue back with yours). If that doesn't work, something has never failed to me yet, is to stop in the middle when things are starting to heat up and without pulling back from her lips more than an inch you whisper, "Give me your tongue" and then go back to kissing her. She's gonna stick her tongue in your mouth and then you suck on her tongue. The best way to describe it, is basically do to her tongue what you want her to do to your dick....

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye