Ok so I recently got friend zoned, and I'm not going to bother trying to pursue it at the moment, I'd rather up my game and leave her alone for awhile and try again. How long would be enough time to break away from her until I should try again?

Sounds like you are still thinking of her and not out there meeting other women. Ironically the best time to try again is when you actually forgot about her.

I still remember the girl from four years ago who LJBF me hardcore. But the only reason i remember her is because she called me at 2 AM last tuesday for a booty call.

True say. So there really is no good set time huh?

I mean you just said you would rather up your game, which is exactly what you need to do. If your getting one-itis you should start sarging as many girls as possible. Later on when your getting good you can even bring along this old girl to make her jealous ^^. This is not something you can put a timetable on because it depends on you and what you want. You could ignore her for weeks, a month and still keep in touch with her. But more importantly...what are your goals? Do you really want this girl? Ask yourself these questions and really answer them because they are essential in getting you closer to where you want.

Honestly, once your stuck in the friend-zone its difficult to get out, but its not impossible. Im sure you've seen elsewhere but its important to kino more with her to show that you can be sexual too and not JUST her friend. Make yourself scarce and give her the gift of missing you. In the meantime it would be better to talk to as many other girls as possible to increase your social interactions and comfort levels. Good luck!

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Personally I'd forget her about altogether.

AFC after AFC, (myself included) have thought exactly the same thing. How much more difficult can it be to turn our platonic relationship into something hotter.

But once you're in the LJBF zone it is sooo damn hard to get out of. Honestly, you'd probably have a better chance at F-closing a perfect 10, and I ain't shitting you.

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