| Hey,
I haven't actually been sarging yet, I'm still kinda reading and working on my general body language before I actually go out to game, but last thursday unexpectedly took a little turn at sarging.
I'd been busy at my student society till about 11, after which I leave to some unknown club as I'd been invited to a going away party of a (female) friend.
I've had some really good things, and some really bad fuckups, and I figured that posting it here will:
a) Possibly help you guys with some examples
b) Help myself to better reflect on things as I'm recalling it all
c) Possibly get some response from you guys
When I arrive there, there appear to be several people I know (most of which I am sure of regard me as low-status), and several I haven't met before. At first I just hang out with some of the people I know, and later decide to talk to the girl that's going away (I'll call her M). She's with another blonde girl (HB6.5) and some complete AFC's. I lean back, occasionally taking part in the conversation if there's something interesting going on, and after a while the AFC's kinda move away and I'm with three girls (M, HB6.5, and another friend of me J). M treats us all to a drink, and I tell her to suprise me. She brings back "Pisang Ambon" (which is a terribly sweet banana drink), but I don't complain and just enjoy it regardlessly. HB6.5 tells everyone to shot it, and all the girls do, but I decide to just take some small sips to just enjoy the taste, and down it a few seconds later. HB6.5 looks rather disappointed that I didn't down it on her command, but I just look at her in a way like "I'll decide how to enjoy my drink".
The next few rounds are kinda similar, I keep telling them to suprise me (I like to get to know other drinks), the girls mostly shotting it in one go, and I'm just enjoying my free drinks (I haven't actually paid for one of the rounds yet), and if they're really bad just passing them on to J (I'm pretty sure I'm in LJBF-land with her, so nothing to mess up there by giving her free drinks, while slightly negging the other two girls as I never gave them drinks).
Later on J decides she'll do a round, but doesn't have enough money. I offer to lend her some money (20E) out of common courtesy, but in hindsight I think this might've been a bit of a DHV too (I take care of my friends, and I'm not low on money).
After her round I figure it'd only be fair for me to pay one, so once M asks who's doing the next round I say "I'm pretty sure it's my turn, but it won't be much fun suprising myself" so I turn to J, hand her my wallet (I trust her) and say "How about you suprise me?". I felt that actually leaving the company and physically getting them drinks would lower my value, so I let her do it, which worked quite right.
At this point all the three girls are pretty damn drunk. I'm not exactly sober too, but I never let em catch on to that just acting casual, leaning back against a chair. I notice the HB6.5 is sending loads of IOI's my way: She's constantly moving closer to me, she'd try to stay next to me all the time (I've actually moved to the other side of the group to talk with the other gals a few times, and she'd follow me all the time), and at some points she's actually pressing her ass against me (at which point I just slightly grab her shoulder, move her over to the side and say "Mind giving me a little more space? You're kinda pushing me out here!" (neg?).
On top of all that the conversations are getting way more sexual (we're somehow talking about just taking a night-train to somewhere random and having an orgy in it), and the girls start messing with eachother (kissing eachother in front of me). I just make a lot of silly jokes about "Nope, sorry gals, still not turning me up", and after a while both HB6.5 and M are dancing against me. I've had numerous occasions to kiss HB6.5, but decided to just let her wait a little while longer as I was having enough fun anyway.
We've had some more talk, and somehow the girls pointed out some other guy who they've both kissed and was apparently a pathetic kisser.
Later on when the girls leave and I talk with the AFC's, that guy turns up to boast about how he's had both of those girls. Rather annoyed I just said "Yeah, they told, but apparently you haven't really made an impression". He pretended he didn't hear me, and asked me to repeat, which I did. He blurted out something like "Ok, outside, now, and we'll settle this". I just walked up to his side of the group, and calmed him down somewhat "Look, I'm not judging you, but they did actually just talk about it, and I'm not sure if they're speaking the truth, but they didn't actually say a lot of nice things about you". His friend tries to trick me pointing at my t-shirt. I don't look down and just say "Yeah, That's a metallica t-shirt, saw them live, they rocked". He replied "No, there's a stain there". I didn't actually figure out it was the age-old prank, and I looked down. Fortunately he was rather drunk, and before he could react I'd grabbed his arm and pushed it back without actually saying anything, just looking at him. At this point the guy that I actually had a fight with backed off and started blurting that they're sluts anyway. I simply said I never denied that, but it wasn't any of my business. He's talking some more, and I just answer neutral. After a while I figure I'd calmed him down enough, and just close the conversation by simply turning back to the group of AFC's and turning my back.
After he's left the AFC's are all totally impressed, so when the girls got back I was definitely *the* alpha male of the group.
Up till now, everything had been going pretty good. Everyone who knew me as an AFC had gone away (except for M and J, but J wasn't giving of any signals about me, and M was only mildly joking around), and I'd definitely sparked attraction in at least HB6.5 and could've easily kissed her.
At this time it's 1 AM, and some of the people have to leave. Somehow this turned into a massive orgy of everyone kissing eachother, and after a while HB6.5 tries to kiss me, but I figure I definitely don't want to be just one of the 6 others that came before me, so I reject and say "Sorry, I'm not that easy".
I move outside with J, and wait for the rest. After a while they come out, have some more kissing orgy, and the guys that have to leave leave. Me, M, J, and HB6.5 move on to my student society, with 3 bikes (M goes on the back with me).
Halfway HB6.5 asks "Why didn't you want to kiss anyway?". I should've just said something implying that I could get better, but instead I somehow blurted out how I really felt (That just kissing with no future plans wasn't something I enjoyed), and I'm pretty sure that completely ruined my frame. Later when we arrive, my frame is ruined even more:
We've only got barstools and no real place to stand, so I take a barstool but I still haven't figured out how to keep a laid-back posture when on a barstool (nothing to lean against), so that kinda ruined it.
Furthermore there's this one guy there that is absolutely alpha (not just pretending), and he's clearly DHVing me several times. I'm still not quite sure how to respond to that, so that messed up more.
Somehow I end up just kinoing M and J a bit, but HB6.5 is quite a bit away just watching me, and I wasn't sure if I still wanted to game her (slutty behaviour), so I just ignored her for the rest of the night.
So yeah, after that kissing orgy I kinda lost my game and didn't know how to respond. Any tips?
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