I came with a few of my friends, we all danced with enough girls to go home satisfied. We were all mesmerized by this one girl(I didn't stare as much as my friends did because I did not want to DLV). I didn't ask her to dance because she had already rejected a couple of my friends. This one guy though asked her to dance, not only did she say yes but they also made out. I was in complete shock. The only thing the guy had on me and my friends was a couple of inches and some shades. What do you guys think of this?

I would say, this is one you have to put down to looks. Did he say much to her? Maybe she had seen him DHVing around the club earlier but in a situation in a club, I would say looks play a much bigger part than they normally do.

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That's a pretty AFC assumption. I don't say this to pick a fight or anything, but merely to point out that you are allowing yourself to fall for the same shit that all the other people that are stuck in their social programming fall for.

Perhaps when he asked he didn't "ask", but more so assumed that she would say yes, whereas your friends were asking because they doubted she would say yes. Perhaps she knew him. Perhaps he had made out with her friend earlier and so now she was jealous of her friend and attracted to this guy that was running amazing game on her and her friend and she was his true target. Perhaps he was a PUA, or perhaps a natural with skills that you don't yet understand.

I very rarely see girls hook up with guys based upon looks alone. To the casual observer this may appear the case, but more often there are things going on that you just don't notice, so you chalk it up to his looks instead of his body language and voice tonality when he asked the same question as your friends. I've good looking guys crash and burn, just to have an ugly guy go up and succeed and sometimes the girl isn't even sure why she's so attracted, but it's all in how he asked and not what he asked.

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I kinda disagree with you. I've had 2 girls approach me just because of my looks. I hooked up with both of them. One was a quick goner, but the other one wasn't. She later told me all her friends liked me - without even spoken a single word to them! It is very rare like you say so, though.

Noob here (note this is my first post ), but I'm with Rye Lee.

Whenever I'm out with other AFCs like me, they complain that their problem is their lack of height, old / young face, weight...whatever. If they could change this one thing about their appearance, it would all be easy.

But IMO, looks help with opening, but that's about it. Not to brag, but I'm tall, and I've done modelling work, and I get rejected much more often than not. That's why I'm here...

Sure, that's what they say and that's what you believe, but only because you're not looking deeper.

I often get opened because of my looks these days, but even 2 years ago there wasn't a chance. Now I'm told I'm hot, or they comment on my tattoos, piercings, or shaved head. I used to be called ugly and now I'm hit on and you think that's just a couple piercings and a haircut (I already had the tattoos. Perhaps, but when I go out and don't carry myself the way I do when I'm "on", then no one opens me or gives me a second look. A large part of what makes you attractive isn't just looks, it's body language.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye