So I met this girl back in September from one of my high school classes before I had any sort of clue as to how to pick up women, and most of our conversations took place over the internet rather than in person. Anyways most of those convos were me comforting her while she dated this jackass for over a year, they just broke up only about 3 weeks ago. Then a couple weeks ago I really fucked up and told her I liked her after she confronted me on it. She responded by saying we were the best of friends, etc etc. I took a week long break from her without saying anything, but I played it cool after getting zoned so she doesn't know I'm bitter or anything. Now we've started hanging out a bit more in person, and so far I'm not being a doormat to her problems, I've been kino escalating and she doesn't mind if I touch her at all, and it's never a dull moment. Now the shame of it all is that only a few months after meeting her, I actually did figure out how to start picking up women. The problem is that no matter how hard I try with her I can't break free since I met her before I learned.

Is there any chance to break free of the dreaded friend zone?

Ok, seems you have a bad case of one-itis!

I would say if you can start approaching other girls, this will do two things:

1. Break the one-itis (which ain't healthy - think of all the girls you are missing because you are focussed on just one!)

2. She will see it as you are seeing her less and other girls more. She will think "why does he prefer to be with her / them than me?" It may make her up her game a bit.

3. Most importantly, it will make her see that you are attractive to other girls - something that will make you attractive to her.

In my opinion, the friend zone is when a girls mind is fixed on the fact they just cannot imagine you as anything else, no matter how hard they try because they have never really seen you in such a situation. So, take the imagination and make it a reality. At this point, you should be neging her like "had your chance and blew it" kinda stuff.

Hope that works!

"G"

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Is it good in the sense that I'll be able to get out of it one day?

Hes telling you to use it to your advantage!

If you're referring to breaking outta the friend's zone with her and get it on, then forget it.

On the surface it appears deceptively easy.

You know her and she's your good friend. So with a little more work maybe she could be something more, right? Wrong. Wrong wrong wrong.

You've already DLV'ed enough for her to consider you as JUST a friend. Remember a girl's definition of a 'friend' and a 'lover' is on two different ends of the spectrum.

It could happen, but it's rare. Mystery Method, explains this shit in detail.

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The only way this is ever gonna happen is if I trigger mad jealousy in her and ignore her or something probably huh.