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I had a meeting at work with a girl I'd been flirting with by phone for months, I'd only met in the flesh twice before although I knew her quite well, she's more senior than me and a real alpha female, there are a few important people in the room.
I say hello to everybody, sit opposite her and introduce her to the people she doesn't know.
I had bought in two drinks of water and she stole one of them with a half naughty half challenging look, runs her finger around the top in the classic style and takes a sip.
How would you have reacted?
I still have no idea what the best response was.
Well obviously she's showing IOIs but whether she's the type of girl that does them intentionally I dont know....
best thing would be to throw a neg her way like "looks like your skin could do with the hydration"
this would be difficult in the current company and will make you seem harsh... i'd just dismiss it... dont show any reaction and start talkling to another person (female if possible) and wait for any other IOIs during the meeting...you'll seem determined and focused on work (a turn on for the alpha female).... afterwards you can say that she owes you a drink... and TELL her (if the IOIs continued) that she will pay you back on friday at a nice bar (say the bar to her).... there you ahve it... clsoed.
Godd luck, should an identical situation occurr