Hey,

So i just got dumped, and i realise the only reason i care is becuase i dont like to lose, and i still wanna shag this bird. It was probably my fault becuase i didnt make much of an effort since shes not really my type.

PRO'S
shes got massive tits, she swallows, shes low maintenance

CON'S
She wasnt really my type, she lives like a pig, in an area where i cant stand to go, she isnt very interesting to talk to, shes clumsy, her mates are fitter

Another reason i give a shit is because i dont really know anyone else in this city.

Should i stay in touch with her??????........if i only want to shag her and go out for drinks

Forget her. Improve your game and you'll be picking up much classier birds. You'll look back and laugh that you even asked if her cons are anything to go by.

That feeling of rejection is natural. However, what you need to do is recognise it, recognise why you feel it and side step it. Thats what PUAs do.

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Height: 6'
Age:28
Hair: brown
Eyes: brown

Well, your post should tell you everything you need to know about why you got dumped

My friend, you have been the victim of "Karma"

Being a PUA is not just about being a smooth talker - it's the whole package. What you do will reflect what happens to you.

If she wasn't your type, why are you making a thing about it? Okay, she may be good in bed, and pleasing to the eye, however, what makes you think there aren't more out there like her, maybe more suited to you.

Maybe what you say is true. However, the way you say it makes me think that you feel a little dejected.

Have some respect for the girl, even though she dumped you. It happens. By respect, I mean rephrase what you say about her - it's not going to do you any favours.

A wise man once said "we see ourselves through the eyes of others." I would say you have farily low self-esteem.

Last note - if you want to be a PUA in "this city" may I suggest heeding what I've said otherwise your rep is going to become very bad!

Hope this helps.

Cheers,

"G"

Move on and just change your attitude towards women slightly. You were never going to have a LTR with this girl if that's all you wanted.

Dont get me wrong, she is a nice girl, very caring, sweet etc.

I think my original post was me trying to look at as though i dont care when i do.

mrieus, you make some intersting points, food for thougt indeed.

Cheers

M