to be honest with you...

you need to put the ball in your ballpark... as of right now every move is up to her... you have to neg a lil and even give her the opportunity to miss you by not seeing her for a while... don't be that guy thats annoying to girls cuz they don't like that

i would recommend you DHV a lot and put the ball in your park then post your body language that you're too good for her and if she wants you she needs to work for it...

This is a simple one.

She likes you, plain and simple. However, you are THERE for her, you are COMFORTABLE. Comfortable is BORING.

Heres the kicker though, theres another dude. Could or couldn't be the guy that got in her trashcan, but there is another guy somewhere that ISN'T comfortable, HE is playing hard to get.

So, her situation is this. She's chasing the guy thats hard to get, but stringing you along in case it doesn't work out with the other guy. If she had sex with you, she'd feel bad if she started dating the other dude instead.

So, what to do? Make yourself unavailable sometimes. Make her THINK that you have a lot going on, make her think that you're hanging out and talking with muptiple girls, make her think that SHE is lucky if you find time to hang out with HER.

Best of luck to you, I've been in your situation and it is VERY hard to turn down a girl that you truly like if she wants to hang out, but I guess we've all got to get over oneitis sooner or later.

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Reading shit like this almost makes me a little mysogynistic(spelling?). I and every kid on this forum has experienced atleast 1 one-itis and it sucks. It gets me pist off at women hearing stories of them just playing with dudes like a dog with road kill. It looks like your deep into the friends zone or the girl is just as confused as you(unfortunately, most likely not).
I'd suggest doing whatever you can to get over her and get her off your mind. Whether it be a sport, other girls, partying, etc. Just don't think about her. When she gets back, show her what she's been missing and talk to her as if you just met her. Most of this rests on you.. how well you can keep yourself together an not turn afc nice guy, and how well you can run your game on her like she's a regular pick up.

Good luck

Ok ok here I am

So first off your in the friend zone buddy. Neone who says diff is a freakin dumbass, and neva gets laid.

So Your in friend zone, and want out. Well theres two options you can keep being a scared lil girl and watch her sleep, or just go for it. I know I know, but Hollywood my hearts beating like ten thousand beats a second and I'm nervious. Screw that this is how you get over being scared by just doing. It's obvious your tactics didn't work. Am I correct??? Well then do what I say.Now next time your with her just make some damn moves.

Now I bet she'll say were just friends. Ok good now you know where you stand plain and simple, but she just might go for it. It's alomst impossible to make a friend a girlfriend cause now she sees you as a big wuss and her comfort pussy. Theres one thing to do and thats change change change. I mean everything start treating her like a girlfriend and make serious passes at her. You might lose a friend just to warn you. But atleast you can finaly move the hell on. THEN FOR THE NEXT GIRL YOU KNOW TO DROP THE NICE GUY ACT.

Treat women good, but don't act like one of the girls be a man already.
I get laid because I have everything planned in my head before I act ,and before every situation. Stick with your plan don't bitch out. Just adjust small things when the time arrives, but your masterplan should not change.

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This sounds like a tough one. She sees you as a nice friend and not a cool guy. I think you need more experience with other girls before she will see you for the man you really are inside. Enjoy her friendship and meet some other girls.

I would have to say I agree with russian bear, It does sound like you have one itis. If you want to make her your woman then I would say pursue but if your just trying to bed her I say fuck it and goe mess with 10 other HB's. If you did'nt know there are 50% more women on the earth than there are men and if every man had to get married each man would have over 10 wives so I hope you keep this mind even after what happens.
Good luck Bro

This girl I really like we hit well and one night she ended up int he bed (she asked me to cuddle her all night) then another night she comes back to my place and ask me to take my shirt off and kiss me (she won't let me fuck her)..
Now I become more and more frustrated and she has figured out.
So I'm using some neg (not calling here) and she keeps calling me

Btw i still have other games on, like the other night I was out with this French girl and meanwhile she called (I told her that i was gonna meet her later ) and I called her with 2 hours late..
she didn't pick up and then she moody the day after

Any heads up ?

Keep her in the friend spot and start seeing other people. Talk about it with her. Don't rub it in but tell her about it. If she likes you at all she WILL be on you quick. If she doesn't like you then she doesn't like you man. Move on.

But you gotta get over the one-itus. Sounds like you got it bad.....

I did
lots of neg
been a ghost
banged few girls this weekend (i always had girls but got to say all you guys are fucking giving me so much knowledge..)
I'm actually intrigued about playing the string-cat..