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| butterfield | PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 9:20 pm | |
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Posts: 224 | | I know confidence can make a difference but do guys who arent really good looking have any chance?
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| Chief | PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 10:47 pm | |
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Website: http://seductiveintrovert.com | | In response to the thread title: No.
In response to the thread message: Yes.
It's all about congruency. If you BELIEVE that you're ugly and that it's a factor of whether or not girls will like you, you will fail, especially if you are TRYING to look like you're having fun while you still have that belief. If you BELIEVE that you're having fun on the dance floor no matter what, you will succeed. It's all about 100% belief.
This basically boils down to a limiting belief about looks. Basic shit. Moving to newbie board.
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| Rye Lee | PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 6:35 am | |
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Location: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada | | Crap, yeah that poll was confusing.
I said yes, but I misread it and meant, "Yes, it is game, not just about looks." It's mostly about confidence and good body language (that doesn't mean good dancing cause I"m fucking terrible). You need to use your body to convey intent and do so in a way that you basically do an approach, banter for a bit, give each other IOIs and then escalate, but without any words, only eyes, facial expression and body language.
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