so theres a girl ive knwon for awhile now and we were just friends for awhile, but recently we were talking alot so i been kinda diggin her.

she never wants to hang out and id have to be the one to iniate the conversation, but shes giving me mixed signals when i talk to her. recently after we started talking alot, shes been saying stuff like how she wants me to go to her family parties or goto group events with her to like theme parks and what not. one line she said was when i told her i was eating a sanwich without crust, then she said i should make em into shapes and shed make me a heart shaped one one day.

the thing is that i know i have to extra kino her snce shes someone ive knwon for awhile, but she keeps flaking whenever i ask her to the movies or to hangout somewhere with just us. she would only go out if i go with her and a group of girls she knows. i know her friends so idunno how id escalate kino with them around.

how can i get any 1on1 time with her wit this situation? does the ioi's im stating considered ioi's? i believe she likes me but from her lack of effort, im getting mixed signals

sry for the long essay! hahah

It seems to me you are making yourself too available. Remember the saying - Too much circulation makes the stock/value go down.

The way to combat this is to put a higher price on your time. When talking to her on the phone don't spend longer than 10 minutes talking to her because you should make yourself busy (either developing personally/financially or hooking up with other girls )

This doesn't mean you cold shoulder her or suddenly become a jerk. You should be fun to talk to & be around, but just give her less so she wants more.

I'm not so sure that she's playing mind games with you but obviously this seems to occupy your thoughts a lot of the time so you need to relax a little and take control of the situation.

Hope this helps

-Eros

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