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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 7:43 am 
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I picked up three numbers on Sat. during the Holland v. Russia game in the center of the city. All three girls are very interested in me or so it seems. Two won't stop constantly texting me (HB7 and HB9) and I am sure I can get somewhere with them... if I wanted. however the girl I liked more was the HB10 who told me over and over how much she liked me and wanted to come out with me. She answers my texts and added me to MSN, but is giving me the push-pull... How do i swap positions with her and stop being her target and become the PUA?

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Yesterday we talked for a while on MSN I asked her if she wanted to go out for a while that night and she said no, but maybe sometime later the week and seemed a bit off about it. I sent her a text later and she responded with a text saying.
"You need to learn Dutch? Who told you so? ;) Learning Dutch can't be that difficult! Just find yourself a interpreter... ;)"

I need something I can use here... ps. I haven't learned any routines or anything like that. I have just been being myself.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 8:38 am 
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The next time you get to meet her, add (more?) value to yourself, then you will have the "right" to push pull her. Waste less time on her if it helps, hb10 or not, a target is a target. make yourself more exclusive, in demand. An alpha, with precious alpha time -tick tock!-

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 1:32 pm 
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The main problem is that you asked her. You didn't assume that she wanted to spend time with you, so you asked her nicely. If you doubt yourself, why would others feel differently? Instead of asking, you need to assume that she wants to spend time with you and just tell her where and when. It just demonstrates pure confidence and she can't say no. The other thing is, it was night time... if a girl has doubts about you and you suggest meeting up at night, she's automatically gonna put her defenses up because she assumes you'll be expecting sex. It's not a situation she wants to be in unless she has confidence in you. Or if she's really hot for you.

"Listen, I'm gonna go out and _____, you should come along". This will do the trick nicely - it's confident, assertive and it isn't pushy.
"Alright listen, you're not doing anything right now and I can't have us sitting around bored so we're gonna meet up and _____". Again, it's assertive and she can't really say no.

Both of these let you know where you stand with her and where her mind is at. If you've displayed the qualities she needs, she'll never say no. You will only encounter resistance if she genuinely can't meet you or if you've given her reason to doubt your assertiveness.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 11:55 am 
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In addition to Dalziel´s post i think you should make yourself rare
Don´t write her texts and MSN-Messages all the time (i don´t like text messaging anyway)
If you want to meet her call her and fix a date


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 8:03 am 
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Thanks for the tips b'ys.

Well I stopped txting/ msging this girl. I think I botched the game here and I'm pulling out. It's ok though because I picked up 4 other numbers this week and I'm meeting 3 other girls in the next 3 days respectively. If this girl comes back looking for me then I'll play it more confident like you all suggested.

Thanks again,
Guud


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