So how do you guys keep a girl in the friends with benefits zone when she wants to become your girlfriend: I can usually logically find a way out of many of my problems, but this one has been giving me some trouble. Any advice would be appreciated guys.

You find a girl that wants to be your friend or somebody gets hurt.

Can you give any more details?

Personally, I've been in this situation before...

I tried the subtle approach of "anything more than friends would break what we have already - if we were to move to the next level it would never be the same if we were to break up - I couldn't allow myself to get into that situation."

If that didn't work, then it becomes "Even after I have told you how I feel, you are still so eager to push things on. It's not fair to put that kind of pressure on me. Feels like you have just ignored everything I said, so I'm wondering if you really see me as a friend after all....?"

Hopefully, if she is a friend, she will know to back down and keep it in the friend zone. If not, then she dosen't really care about you and so you should slowly distance yourself for a while. She will hopefully understand eventually - time really is a healer..

Hope that helps!

Good luck

"G"