Hi everyone...

As you can see, I am new to the game. I've rarely paid any attention, to what actually stimulates attraction between the opposite sex. I'm recently single, well... 5months single now, but that's after I have been in a relationship for 3 years, and a time before I was legally allowed to go into night clubs. Now, I find myself single once again, and after having sex on-tap for over 3years, going 5 months without sex, let alone have a new number to add to my phone, I got frustrated. I decided perhaps there are somethings in life that i need to learn, and my approach of trying to attract a female could do with an upgrade.

I used to think that the women need to approach you, and you needed to be a good looking guy, etc. So i worked on that, started hitting the gym, updated my wardrobe, etc... didn't work. But what what my friends noticed was that I was completely oblivious to some of the girls signals, and i would brush it off like the naive young man that I am. So now I find myself having to re-work my habits. I think my problem is that, I don't know how to change my behavior to curb, the primal urges of reproduction with the opposite sex. What is that you say to yourself, to help switch these off. Or perhaps to G yourself up to approach?! I think I understand the basics of approaching a set, but the whole thing about ignoring your target I find that way too difficult to do so. I don't know, perhaps it's just practicing, and refining eh?

Any help, or any stories about what you did when you first started the game would be much appreciated... cheers!

Villian