I am curious as to how you react to an HB you are into calls you a dude, man or bro? Is that just LJBF talk? It always confuses me when a girl says that. I still have hooked up with a girl who called me man. It was smonthing like "Hey man, lets go do something."

I think its cause the girls that do that hang out with a bunch of guys. I am currently starting to hang out with this hb, but she calls me dude and man. I have made my intentions pretty clear. The dude and man just always throw me off....

thoughts?

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(s)he might be hiding something in his/her pants hahaha..


she is asking you out on a date.. go for it, just make sure she knows that you dont want to be just a guy to hang out with.. throw in alot of kino ect..
good luck and keep us updated

If she is hiding something in her pants, there is really only one way to find out....

Hobbit, you are more than likely right... I have done that a few times....

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Well, I know what you mean, cause it turns me off when they do it, but it doesn't neccessarily mean anything aside from that they hang out with lots of guys like you said. Just don't say it back to her, cause that tends to send the wrong idea.

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I know girls that call everybody dude, and I know a girl that calls her boyfriend mate occasionally...it's a little out of the ordinary but I don't think you can read too much into it.

Women calling me dude drives me insane. It comes off as disrespectful

I give girls pet names all the time sport, punk, shaaaawty, cunt.... This girl is "trouble". She calls me trouble as well, but the whole "Hey dude" "Thanx man" throw me off a bit...

Maybe its her way of not showing too much intrest. It seems she was kinda excited i hit her up, and said she was wondering if she was gonna have to track me down....

I am really perplexed with this idea now... Cause its mainly hb8s and up that I have noticed doing it.....

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Okay so she calls you dude, bro man? that is'nt a big deal really, could it be that she somehow is teasing you? perhaps. Anyway if she calls you dude, return the favor, try calling her buddy, bud etc etc see how she reacts pull some of her strings aswell see what makes her tick, get to know her, well in all respect if she wants to be friends then it is'nt a loss mate.

Are you in love with this hb? if the answer is no then why do you care? okay sure you might not get to lay this chick but hell she might open up opportunitues for you, besides I doubt she just wants to be friends, (presuming you dont know her that well) as you said she hangs around with alot of guys then its your job to make yourself diffrant from all of her "male" friends dont jump her hoops make her jump yours, first.


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I dated a girl who called me dude all the time.

So I started messing with her head, by calling her dude, and bro, and man, all the time.

She didn't like her boyfriend calling her dude, so she quit calling me dude.

Haha.

Don't take in in the butt like some low self esteemed AFC? She got no intention insulting you, hence you shouldn't be taking it offensively. I personally love to be called dude, man, whatever since it makes me feel much more closer to her than other prefix

maybe it's different for me, since it's hard for HK girls to call me that, especially when we talk in chinese, i actually try and get them to talk how i do (framing)