Ok guys, I've read Neil Strauss's 'The Game' and Tony Clink's 'Lay Guide'.
Was at a party on Friday night.
1. Got talking to a hot lady (40's) who caught my eye. She gave me some good kino by brusing her foot/leg up against mine. I got her email address (took a little effort- gave her pen and paper). When I clarified address later (she insitited it was
hername@hotmail.CO.UK) she didn't seem that interested. Later saw another guy getting on well with her. I'll send her an email on Mondy morning, following tips on this forum. I wasn't drunk but perhaps if I'd had less to drink I'd have 'performed better' at e.g affirming values.
2. Another lady. Spoke to her and her friend in one spot in the middle of the garden. Her friend a bit of an obstacle. Later I spoke to them somewhere else, with me and her sat next to oneanother on a low wall by house door.
Good body language. Asked her for her email address and she wrote down her personal and work email addresses.
3. Met her through her friend whom I'd spoken to at a party 3 weeks ago.
I tried to get her email address or no. but no luck. HOWEVER the 3 of us shared a taxi home. She mentioned the local salsa class that she goes to and suggested I go along. I of course said yes.
Strange aside- taxi passed a nudist sauna. The ladies giggled and said they'd been there. I bullshitted complete innocence (I've been there and to proper sex clubs, which this one isn't). I didn't want to get sleazy sojust hinted that I'd heard of it.
I got off cab first- gave me 1/3 (her suggestion), to her and confirmed I'd see her Thursday night at the Salsa lessons. I've been to a few salsa lessons and while not completely useless am still noticeably worse than average- another lady dancing near me at party said "Are you sure of your sexuality''.
At the party the lady I'm going to the salsa lessons said I had good rythym and could sing. And she said she'd only had one drink !
Guys- I don't want to be my usual AFC self with these ladies but am not that experienced despite my age.
CHAT