so this pretty cute girl that lives in the same city as me sent me a random myspace add...her profile looked legit and i could tell she was a real girl so i accepted the invite and sent her this message:

All attractive women on myspace are either spam bots or internet predators.
How do I know you're not just trying to take advantage of good looking guys on myspace?


Her response

first im not attractive
second thankyou 4 the add haa:)
third who's the good looking guy??????????????????
haa jkjkjk:)

actually i just wanna meet some new friends:)
im ______ haa..

apparently she is from china so english isnt so great...but it seems like shes trying hard to make herself interesting to me or some shit

AFC move dude...

first of all. never tell them they are attractive right away. don't even talk anything related to it.

"All attractive women on myspace are either spam bots or internet predators."
that pretty much just told her you know shes attractive n she's already higher value then you, even when you tried to cover it up with the 2nd part.


I would have said(p.s. im just a newbie too but ye heres my try)

" Thanks for the add. I'm sure there is a reasonably good explanation why you added me"

Something that she will be like "wow wat is that good reason? maybe i found him cute? how do i tell him?"

instead she cut you down with "whos the good looking guy"

i responded with this...since i dont really care what her response is:

Ok you're not attractive...ill take your word for it.
I like to be around people who think highly of themselves...what are 3 things that you believe to be interesting about your personality?

she responds:
is this a job interview? lol

me:
YES! and if you want the position you better have a good answer! are you questioning my techniques?

Seems more arrogant then cocky/funny. Maybe just a ;P at the end of the last message would have done well. Any responce so far?

You are doing better then a AFC so far though

Instead of YES, i would have put in, "When have you ever heard that in an interview? I don't even think i want to know the answer any more"

I like to take risks though, if you have a good rappor so far she will still answer.

_________________
Based In Telford
Looking for PUA/AFC's around Telford/Wolvo area.

her response:

haaa thats cute though:p
lol i dont know how to answer your question and u should figure it out by yourself:)ha...
im about to go to work:)later

her:(not exact words i didnt copy this part)
ok you win!
ill appreciate you calling 9 times a day for the weather
(blahblah smile faces everywhere in message blah blah)
number close

me:
Well then I could call you 9 times a day to ask how the weather is! and we are not strangers anymore...ive known you for like 3 days..thats ALMOST a week :]

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Jun 20, 2008 11:31 AM


why im goin to be trouble???-_-
i dont really use aim and why do u want my phone#?haaaaa:)
i dont really talk a lot one the phone w/ strangers:p

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Jun 20, 2008 8:27 AM


I can tell you are going to be trouble...so you go ahead and send your phone # and aim screen name in your next message to me so I can get an answer to my question...because im curious, are you just a big flirt or can you make conversation as well.