Hi guys

I started with "the game" last summer and i experimented different approaches. I met this girl, and i used negs, nlp, dhv. anyway
we got together as a couple and for last 6 month
she had lot of feelings for me but i didn't in the start but i was building 'em up. Before the end. I showed them for her in any form, a rose, compliments, hang out, met her family etc we talked about the future. and so on.
But it ended.
I still have contact. with her. but only in a friendly way

I wonder what to do?. Leave it and take the experience with me, and slowly heal inside.
I can game, but it wouldn't be the same for the moment. No heart in it.


Can i recreate comfort, her feelings for me again, so she might understand what a loss i am?

if, How should i proceed?, cause this would maybe take some time to build it up again, and i wanna try to see if i might work.

time is all i have, if it's gonna work.


what do you think? good o bad plan?

Regards MangoKid82

Mango,

I am sorry to hear about this situation. Unfourtunately, you cannot make a person act, or feel a certain way. The only thing that you have control over, is your own actions. The healing process will take a while approx, three weeks for your situation, depending on how into her you were. Now in that time, I suggest that you do things that will make you feel better. No that does not mean sitting around the house watching reruns of Southpark. I mean make yourself busy. The busier you are, the less you will think about her. Things that will improve the you as a person will be good, this will also help you increase your your ability to game in the future. Take up guitar, learn to say nasty, sexy things in another languge etc. etc. etc. I could give you several things to learn to do. The only way that you will get this one back, is if she wants to come back. Move on with your life, and stop calling her. You are making it apparent that you are clingy to her. So stop. After three weeks start focusing on gaming.