Hey everyone.
I am new to the community. i am 21 years old, and the last "girlfriend" i had was when i was 10 years old..
i always thought that this "Game" would just come naturally to me one day, but it just didnt happen. and then i did a bit of reading about the suduction community, and ended up here.

well, the thing is this.
all the girls that i want to date just become my friends.
what am i doing wrong, and what do i do to fix it?

thanks,
Rootbit.

1) Have you read Magic Bullets or Mystery Method? (if not, start now)
2) Are you escalating physically. Touching/kissing/caressing? If not, you'll end up in the LJBF zone.

what i have is mostly Hugs, kisses on the cheek, and massages and stuff like that...

i did read "the game"

Read either magic bullets or mystery method. The game is only a story. It doesn't give you details on how to construct your game.


The more information you know, the more you can apply it in the field. Seriously, it's like going to defuse a bomb without any knowledge of how bombs work. Guess what? Chances are you going to get blown up.

Which would you rather do? Go out armed with information or go out blind and destroy your self esteem because you keep getting blown out and now know.

NUMBER 2 IS VERY IMPORTANT!!!

Seriously what is the difference between Friends and Girl Friends?

Think about it... Not much. You still talk about the same things. The only thing that is different is the physicality of the relationship. BF and GF are all over eachother and constantly touching where as friends only hug and kiss on the cheeck when greeting or leaving eachother.

Basically get touchy feeling...

Do you attract and SOI?

I have not read "magic bullets" but "mystery method" has alot of good stuff in there. lol my copy looks like a damn college book with all the highlighter marks in it.

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OK,
ill do the required reading.

on another note, can you give me examples of how to give SOI's?

haha i wish i have your problem, all the girls i hit on eventually hate me for playing and hurting them.

Ok, this might be kind of a stupid question, but is the Mystery Method book really required reading? I mean, is there anything in that book that you wouldn't just pick up from reading David DeAngelo's works, watching lots of YouTube PUA videos, and browsing the forums and PUA websites a whole bunch?

Learn the power of showing sexual interest and eye contact, you can practicly melt their hearts with it when done right.

The easiest one I usually do is telling her that I think something about her personality is sexy while looking at her straight in the eyes with a seductive smile. "You're open-minded and adventurous. That's sexy."

Don't forget to kino escalate. It's probably the number-one factor for most guys' sticking points.

hmm dude welcome to the night mare of most PUAs who gets fzoned... funni thing is that operating on a long term game... it is obvious that we have to be friendly and get the phone no to start going anywhere...

best way to get out of LJBF is firstly not landing there... so behave sexy not NICE but sexy to send her the message that we arnt just going to be friends or that you are fkn interested... be annoying if you have to cuz girls love being annoyed so they have something to be pissed off at... or you can get her all wrapped around you and then say to her lets just be friends.... reverse psych sometimes works cuz its up to you to take her out of the fzone and if u advance on the keno she brings up the friends thing just say you already knew that... and we can remain friends afterwurds... or take it further to something special...

if not all those heartless girls who just ask you to be their friend... let them know that its a turn off when you ask someone to be your friend cuz being friends should be mutual... put her down if you have to... go who does that??? its just lame... you need to get your self myspace or something its a neg for her wanting to be your friend... or say playfully say i got all the friends i need in this world why do i need another one??? trust me its better to lose everything than land in the fkd up zone of LJBF...

peace

Hey everyone
thanks for all the replies.
one more question, might sound stupid.
but where do i get the magic bullets book?

Magic Bullets is MM presented better. It's a better read and has the information organized better. You can get it for free on any bit torrent or file sharing program.

If you search and can't find it, then i'll give you a copy. However, I expect you to search and I know you can find it. Something tells me if you are too lazy to find it, then you'll be too lazy to read and practice the material.