Yea, completely agree, I just tease usually. Like when I see a funny goofy pic, I mean if she'd get offended by something like that she's obviously not right (for me).

I just stepped on a fucking goldmine on myspace. Just wanted to blurt it out, haha. I've never had a inbox that full 2 pages of messages, lol. I still haven't answered all...

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I've talked very little to this chick on match - she ignored me at first, I sent a message a bit later on saying "you are really missing out here" she answered but then in her next message said she had found someone.

Two weeks ago, I just sent a message saying, "does persistence count?" to which she responded "yes - but having better, clearer pictures might also help."

I sent her an email saying "I really put up the best ones I have! you'd have to meet up with me for it to get any clearer here's my email address ______"

She hid her profile on match but I still sent her a messge saying "my email addresses were so I might send you some better pics.."


Anyway, I noticed she's back again today, and at the least looked at my profile - a message maybe coming, but maybe not. From her pics she's def HB7 could be as much as a 9

I'm not a big fan of how I responded to her request for more pics, but moving forward, what would you advise?

Well this part always sucks! It's hard to overcome this online and do boyfriend destroyers, unless you're semi-cordial on IM conversation.
OUCH!!! She's negging you here, and as a typical respond you're about to fight for her approval below. You went on to say here are clearer pics, following her lead.
She might be hiding it for a reason, after all she does claim to have a boyfriend, and she may not want any more responses. Her polite way of telling you to leave her alone without saying it.
We haven't seen any real interest in this girl. The one message she sent you she gave you the boyfriend objection. You messaged her and as of now there is no response from your target, and she further went ahead and hid her profile. Perhaps she realized she still had it active even though she has a boyfriend and you reminded her to remove it or hide it. Who knows...

My advise to you is to only message her again, if she messages you. Don't sit around and wait for her message, go ahead and find some others to try and contact on Match that you are interested in. Don't wait around for this girl.

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I must have explained it wrong.


I messaged her - she gave me the boyfriend option.


Then, I did again, and she answered that persistence did count. But hid her profile.

Now her profile is no longer hidden and I can see she looked at my profile.

But the gist is right and I messaged her...thanks

Apologize for the misunderstanding.

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ok j.smooth got a question for you.... let us say that you find a hottie on myspace... what do you write when you add them(like vefore they accept the friend request.)

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Honestly, I don't do a lot of stuff on networking sites like MySpace or Facebook. However, you may say something like..."Okay, so you're picture is pretty cute but I'm wondering what more you have going for you than you're good looks."

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Hey, nice topic you have here.

Just wondering, I've started talking to this girl on Facebook, and I talked to her on AIM a few times, and I find interest in her, physically and personality. But it seems like, I'm the one messaging her mostly, you know a good way to keep it up with the girl, but yet, not seem like annoying or anything lol.

Thanks.

You want to keep a few days in between messaging her if you're the one initiating contact. Ideally, there is enough attraction built that she also contacts you on messenger. Go a few days without contacting her and see if she gets in touch with you.

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I'll try that, thanks for the quick response. Thanks for the advice, appreciated. I'll post back on the results in a few days.

No problem!

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Here is my question, Im 43 years old. Pretty good looking and have a great life. Looking for a HB 8-10 to settle down with. the problem is I can get the older ones 38-45 but they cant keep up with me. I am looking for the 30 yr old +/-5. I have had a little luck with them once I can get them face to face.... but getting there is the challenge. Is there anything you can suggest to help get to the F2F? what will get them to consider an "older guy"

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks for the PM. I would think the biggest thing is when you write your profile for dating sites or any kind of other site you emphasize how active your lifestyle is. Your photo's should be congruent with this showing you biking or whatever it is you do. In addition talking online through email or IM I would in fact challenge some of them. "Think you can keep up with me?" type stuff.

That's one thing when I read these messages that really came across to me. It's that you're very active and fit. Age like you said isn't so much a factor face to face, but online people judge many books by their cover based on age. So if you're using online dating sites you're going to want this theme in your headline too so she sees that along with everything else.

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ok j here was the thing i am on the site plenty of fish...ive been trying to do sumopeners that i could do in a face to face situation but try them on the net and see witch one had more responses so itried this 1 one time and i got a response and i dont know how to keep it going i wasnt thinking she would respond like this,i had noticed a very good target point so i ran with it..she said she was studying fashion design... but ne ways here it


subject:need your opinion

if kaki pants is a color..then why isnt it on a car??your into fashion so do you know?

then this is what she said btw she is a hb 9
hmmmmm.... well I guess there could be a car made that is kaki color, but i doubt that will happen... gold, tan, are pretty much the closest ur gon get to kaki- plus i dont really believe, with my (fashion background) that majority of people would be interested in a kaki color car.... just my opinion. but also kaki wouldnt suit a vehicle lol
but hey that was an interesting thing to ask- u got my attention... i cant really say why there are kaki pants and not kaki cars... maybe u be the first person to suggest it and make sum big bucks... it might b a hit


were do i take it from there? i posted this question in another thread..and it wasnt what i was after but he did give me good advise..well i would really like to hear what you would do or think i should go from here

thanks

jamie