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Just went out today for a couple of hours of day game, really enjoyed myself. One thing that has come to my attention. I LOVE going solo on groups, nothing feels better than opening a massive 5 set and toying with them all, it's fantastic seeing the hens flutter their wings, and peck at each-other.

I mean once you've smashed AA the female world is really your oyster. I don't know why guys don't do it more often everyone is occupied with lone wolfs and two sets. I'm telling yah guys the real fun is with hen nights, and other large groups.

A question to you guys is, why do you consider groups a challenge? Do you feel you shy away from them/ or are you like me and love having chicks wrestle over you .

i tend to avoid groups, actually i avoid everyone. i have zero daygame. i just cant seem to approach in daylight ya know? i'm afraid of getting judged or rejected, well not rejected but getting called a fucker, or faggot. its difficult, i dont know whats wrong. the more there are, the harder it is to grab all there attention and it just fucks with my head. maybe im insecure. i dunno.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

I usually tend to ignore the ones by themselves actually. I enjoy the groups because they are more fun, there's more people so you get a lot more personality and people to choose from. It's nice because with groups, you usually don't pick a target until after you've been in the set for a couple minutes, so you can choose based upon personality AND looks, not just looks. You can also totally fuck with a large group and it becomes a really fun game to see who gets it and who doesn't, like you say, generally the ones that get it end up fighting over you.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

You ask why everyone doesn't love the prospect of gaming groups on their own? You've identified the main factor yourself, "once you've smashed AA." A contributing factor of AA is the fear of being judged. Logically more people more possible negative judgement. I think its due to the AA that the group sarge is less appealing to some. Just out of interest how to you smash your AA?

I can never really bring myself to open mixed sets. My AA kills me when I consider that the guys of a mixed set are primarily a security measure AGAINST other guys who would otherwise open the set. Anyone have techniques for disarming the guys and isolating the girls?

Make the guys your BEST friends.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Just build it up, at first just ask a canned opener then leave, then once your comfortable, take it a little further. Like afterwards tell a little 20 second story, then talk to girls on the street but don't bother with results just make it your objective to for example:

1. Make them smile once.
2. Make them laugh once.
3. Give you one IOI.
4.(optional) get them interested in you (did they ask a question about you)