Hey everyone,

I have a dilema......I have been in the game for just over a month now and the amount of girls I have been seeing has increased 1000%!! but I still have a long way to go as every one of these exchanges has lasted no longer than 3 weeks.


Take for example my latest escapade....I met this girl in a night club and went through the motions, I got the same thrill I always do when I approach, the thrill is like an addiction. Anyway....I ended up going home with her, after that night(she was all over me by the way) I left it a day before I text her, always keeping it playful and she was playful back. I arranged to meet her a few days later, making sure she knew I was busy and I was giving her time. Come the day I got a text from her friend saying their was a problem and the girl couldnt make it, a serious family problem. I text her and she gave me the story....completely plausible and she seemed genuinely upset. I made sure I kept in contact and tried to givce her some space. After a few days I phoned her and asked how things were, they seemed to have calmed down and so I asked her to go out dancing that night, she seemed shocked and said I should give her notice of something like that. I immediately thought I probably made the move too soon. I gave a text the next day, but Have had no response, I have also tried to call but the phone was off.

Does anyone have any advice or experience on such situations, What is the best time to leave her to answer and if she doesnt should I try again or just leave it and find another?

Cheers for now

whats up dude
i would say go find another girl
thats just me though..
good luck let me know what happens

man, that same story happened to me not long ago. I picked up on a friday. The girl took me back to her hotel and we fucked. i even slept there and left in the morning. She agreed to hang out again at night but this time nothing happened. She had the room and everything but nothing happened. I think these kind of girls only want a one time thing and we're good in giving it to them but that is it. No day twos for them so maybe you should just move on and find another one night stander.

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taipan

Really after you dealt with her you should qualify her and ask her if she wanted to hang out you can normally see from her reaction as to what she really wants to do.
Move on mate

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