how can I just go talk to a girl with out caring about what she thinks.Some people drink alchol and beer some even take drugs but I dont want to do any of that. Also why sometimes the girl is like in front of me and I say fuck it and not talk to her.when I really want to talk to her

i ask the same thing to myself, and the reason is because your thinking of a result you want...if you have no end point you can talk

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how can I stop thinking of a result

by not wanting one lol. if you are thinking i have to get the number then you will be thinking about that result al the way through the convo. instead think im going to talk to her by saying hi....after you get comfortable with that move to openers, build yourself up untill your having full convo's

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'You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.' Albert Einstein

really helpfull information keep it coming. after saying hi what opener will you use.

none, you have to become comfortable talking to females, you walk around being happy and say hi hows your night going then you walk off, once you can do that you do the same thing to a girl and say whats your name. once you can do that and just have a convo with her then you should start using openers to get into sets with targets in. thats how i do it.

im about to go offline so pm me

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'You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.' Albert Einstein

well i have just starting taking to girls and all u need to do is get a IOI and over in and when u more in tell yourself she likes me and she wants me up come up to her

When I started, I just said hi to anyone, and I do mean anyone. Talking to other people you don't know definitely helps you out because you're learning how to talk to strangers and you begin to feel more comfortable doing so. That lessens the pressure of talking to a girl you like. Of course, the nervousness doesn't go away until you're completely comfortable. The key thing, though, is confidence. Confidence in yourself, your personality, your looks (even if you're average, think you look good) and then remember to stop caring what the response you'll get is. When you worry about results, as the others above had said, you will only screw up or never wind up doing it.

When I approach girls, I don't try to run canned openers. I try to go with whatever comes to mind using the environment which can include what she's wearing. Just open the conversation with something and go from there. A humorous opener definitely helps.

Ask yourself these questions


1) Does she pay your bills?
2) Did she raise you?
3) Do you pray to her at night or worship her on the weekend?



If you can collectively respond with "no" to all these questions, then she really isn't that important so you shouldn't give a fuck if she doesn't like you or not.

I have another question how can I keep my game all the time.Sometimes I don't feel like talking much so I don't talk to a girl even if I want to(even HB 7,8,9)So how can I keep my game all the time?

I think some days you're just on and somedays you're not...you can try those exercises that help you get in the right mood but i dont remember what they are

Ross Jeffries' Unstoppable Confidence Cds have these incantations and they work well to get me "in state" B4 I roll:

1. You are aggressive, direct and powerful with women you desire. You rrrrradiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.

2. Your mind is focused on what you desire. You go for what you want consistently and congruently.

3. You quickly size up a woman's potential and eliminate those who are wastinhg your time.

I guess natural's are in this state automatically. But for me, getting the right frame of mind is essential. hope this helps.

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