I understand the usual dhv the obstacle while negging the target but I've run into problems recently at clubs. In some clubs it extremely loud to work a set. I approached a 2 set and began talking to the obstacle.The problem was only one of them could hear me at a time. I tried tried backing up a little but then they both had trouble hearing me. (And I was speaking exceptionally loud) I didn't want to start screaming because that seemed too "try hard". What would you all do in this situation?

I'd take both their hands and take em to the dance floor. Then, I'd talk in the target's ear while dancing and get some IOIs or feel an "it's on" vibe. Then, I'd turn and tell the obstacle, "Your friend and I like each other. You OK with that?"

nice chief

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Bacardi

dont talk too loud in someone's ear, it hurts!
if the ear is close, just speak in a clear good voice, not loud.
make sure the sound of your voice is attractive

also dont lean in, lean back and let them lean into you. > so you have the most value

sometimes i just say something from a leaned back position while i know they will not hear it, thats DHV, because i have the attitude and facial experssion that i am important enough to listen to. and because i DHV, they will always say "what?" and lean in to hear what i have to say, so i can say it one more time.

so..... thats the way you should talk to girls!!