Girl went for the opener, added me to her friends, talked to me for a bit, then quit.

What do I do to maintain the "prize" reputation while getting her to talk again? If I say "are you going to talk to me or am I just another number on your list" it makes it seem like she's the prize.

Any ideas?

Ok, so I am new to this PUA world, and I am yet to properly introduce myself. That will follow soon.
I have been chatting to people on line for the past ten years, for fun for work and for the sake of it.
If I see someone come on line and I want their attention and I think it has got to that quiet zone there are a few things I will do.
First off, I recognise that I prob didn't create enough interest or attraction in the early stage of the conversations. If you had connected well she would still be talking back. We have all been there! Girls who use social networking sites and accept interaction from strangers will often have a huge list of guys in their ego boosting I'm popular in the online world friends list. So only one's who she has deemed to have massive value will be getting her attention, also she might be just using msn to talk to her real friends, and pays little or no attention to her on line boy buddies!
Make yourself more important than all of them, if your using msn you are able to change your message to friends, use this to DHV your entire friend list. Without bragging or looking like your after attention. Chances are she will see this.
Go to your friend list and block her, you don't want her to log on and see you sat there, wait for her to log on, then wait, wait, wait (5-10 mins) unblock her (she will think you have just logged on) say nothing to her, after 5 mins log off (block her again) your too busy to sit on msn and your too busy when you are on msn to talk to her. Do this a few times (over a few weeks), you might find next time you log on (unblock her) you get a hi. If not and you do need to message her you do as b4, she is blocked you unblock her wait a good few mins b4 you message her then try, "oh shit I didnt notice you there, there was something I wanted to ask you, it will have to wait cos i got to dash though" then log off (block her). Next time you log on she will prob ask you what it was you wanted to ask her, then use a routine stacked with humor and a few negs. Dont mention you have even noticed she hasnt been talking to you.
This approach has worked for me b4.
Also, if you block her and every time you log on (unblock her) she logs off, it means she is very aware of you and is trying to show you she thinks she is of higher value, just keep going showing you have no interest. And when you finally do show some interest its asking her a question nothing to do with connecting with her on a sexual level. She is an online mate.
I hope this helps.
Kase

Ps. Don't rush it can take a while to make yourself someone she wants to know on a real level. Your not a pushy guy, she is just another girl in your list.

Eh, I was talking about Myspace dude. Sorry, I should have been more specific.

bumpppp, I need an answer.

Here's the situation.

Opened on myspace to HB8. She talked to me, added me, then quit talking. What can I say to remain alpha but to talk to her again?

"So get this... I was at a party this weekend and blahblahblah you would have LOVED it!"

She's on your friends list. That's what you do with your friends. Just because she has 1423987544312 friends that she's never spoken to doesn't mean that you're one of them.

Yeah, sounds legit to me.

I was thinking I might just reopen her, if all else fails.

Is there anything wrong with opening a girl again with a neg or something?

Gonna message her now..

I'm also in this situation. Keep me updated on what's going on with her dude!

I sent her a message asking what was up, and I was pretty much back at square one. Tried gaming it up again, she quit talking again, so I deleted her.

I think you did the right thing in deleting her. I need to do some spring cleaning on my myspace profile as well. Granted, I've only got like 40 friends on mine though. I really only like to keep people on my list who I know in real life, and bands or musicians I'm interested in.

Having a bunch of people who you don't know is a waste IMO.

I find here's no problem with it, as long as there's a possibility of meeting them.

btw, girl never replied, wasting my time.

it's cool though, I'd prefer to have game in person over online anyhow.

almost like when you go online and buy something, you don't know what you're really getting til you buy it.

If you go into the store, you can check everything out and make sure it's what you want to buy.

You did the right thing, Stay ALPHA. Plenty of other ladies out there.

"Hey!

Where's my email - you better shape up or you will loose your status as my favorite myspace girldfriend!

So, get this.... blablabla"


Works sometimes