I have a few questions. I am in Highschool and there is this girl that i like. 2 days from now is the last day of school. What can i say that would help us keep touch over the summer? Can i just confess to her and say "i kinna like you" after class? I just don't want to sound very needy and give her too much attention
-This is somethings i knoe about her: she likes shopping, is "medium shy?!",HB 4-5,she is also my friend on fb. , &she might be kinna interested in me. (sry if this is confusing )

google catstring theory. Never tell a chick that you like her. It has never worked for me. As soon as i tell a chick i like her , i become like every other chump looking for tail. Be an exception to the rule!!!

So what do i say? or how do i ask her out?

You have her facebook simply send her a message ask her if she wants to hang out sometime she can only say yes or no

If she's into you, just do it.

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I would recommend going for a number and hanging out during summer, THEN try and develop a relationship, I had this problem last year myself and it blew up in my face because I waited too long (end of year), and I went too fast to compensate for lost time... take it one step at a time.

So I should just ask her something like :

Me: Do u want o hang out over the summer?
Her: Yes / No
(if Yes) Me: Can i get your #? ( i dont think i could get her # like this )
(if No) Me: I didn't say you could...

btw isn't asking ppl out on facebook "pussyish " if you see them on a regular basis -thx

start with conversation "so, you got any plans over the summer?... we should hang out sometime." and if she responds like "yea, thatd be cool, etc." then say "well lemme get your number and we'll go (to a place) (on a certain date) sound like a deal?" the number is the easy part of the uphill battle

Now you got a "date" but dont act like its a date, remember not to rush and you gotta make all the moves when it's time to make the move. build comfort when you get to this, a lot, make sure there's kino or you'll just be a friend but make sure she gives an IOI before you do.

If you do get a date, remember you're not going to look for action, all the action is where you stand already. You don't need her, she needs you. You're not even attracted to her unless shes already attracted to you. Don't think she's higher, or better than you. If you dont think like this you're gonna end up in the friend zone, and we don't want that now do we?

ok i rly hope that works. I will try it 2mor0 and c wat happens.

ok im thinking toooo much at this rate i probably wont tell her and ill remain a AFC ..... this is soooo hard ....

Me: Hey u want to hang out over the summer
HER: mayb
ME: Ok heres my number..........

i wouldnt ask... just tell her, "we should hang out over the summer". depending on her reaction you'll know if she has any interest in you. if she says "yea we should" get her number... if she says "i have to go to some other place blah blah" then you know she dont really wanna...

dont think too hard, you'll just mess up, dont stay AFC or you'll be sitting in your house over the summer telling yourself you wish you would have stepped up cause yall could've been hanging out by now or better

No its not..... but having the nerve to say a girl who rates a 4 out of 10 is in the HB category is clearly a lack of good taste in women.......your goal should be to aim high not low

i ended up not asking her. yet.... btw i knoe she not hot and all but i guess it her personality im attracted to? its weird tho .... is it onli me this happens to -_- wow

No man, it sound like you genuinely like her. If thats the case just be yourself she probably likes you as well. You should just ask her out and see what she has to say. Chances are with her being a 4-5 she would love to go on a date with you, no offence intended. A lot of PUA techniques are for picking up the social elite and very attractive women who are used to men treating them like gold...

Just beware of ONE-itis....

a 4??!!okay i guess beuty is in the eyes of the holder


but personally i think u should forget her. Seems like your to attached and already lost half the battle if you like her personallity and stuff but still havent made enough of a connection to know that you'll see her over the summer(super run on sentance ??lol)

btw i guess im a junior in hs now i ended all my testings yesterday